After being a member and a proud moderator here for as long as I have, I have always found I learn something new, whether its a different dynamic, or someones own personal Cuckolding experiences.
But one conversation between a few of us here recently was about the need for ground rules and contracts within a cuckold relationship. I, myself in the beginning had a contract, which in the first few years was amended then restructured then re-written until we decided to just go with what nature intended. For us this has worked, but the contract did clearly define things and give clarity to the grey areas within the marriage.
After chatting in the room in a lively debate, some were for rules and contracts and some wasn’t. Two things did come to the forefront from LA Breeder and Houston Cuck Couple plus also myself which I found to be very good advice, especially for those who want a contract or to establish ground rules.
The first attachment is from L.A. Breeder and does make a lot of sense if cuckolding is to become part of your life.
Here is his thoughts:-
The 5 points to make to begin a cuckold relationship with your wife
What you need to put in writing, sign and date for her to do this with/for you
1) You love her and want her to do this for you and her.
2) She deserves to have this and you support her in it.
3) You’re committed to her, your child and your marriage and will not leave any of them.
4) You’re not going to have others this is only for her and will remain committed to only being with her.
5) You accept that things can and will occur that are not known now. You will fully support anything that comes from this now and in the future.
Understand that the power and control in your marriage has shifted and there is no way back from that because you think it should change after you have opened the door.
The next was from someone who wishes to remain anonymous about a cuckold contract he found online and asked did I feel it could be valid. I pointed out that whilst I know a lot about the industry I am in, I didn’t know enough about a binding document. It will be interesting to see what other’s views on this are and if any others have contracts or ground rules written down within their own lives.
Contract 1.
Cuckold Contract
This contract forms a binding agreement between the two parties named below in respect to their cuckold marriage:
Hotwife _________________ & Cuckold ____________________
agree to comply with the following agreement.
This agreement creates a 3 month trial period whereby the hotwife will become a black only cock slut, and the husband will become a chastity cuckold. This means that the hotwife will not have sexual relations with little white dick (her husband) and is obligated to worship and satisfy big black cocks only. Furthermore, the cuckold is to remain in chastity so there will be no temptation by either person to relax this agreement.
The hotwife will hold the key to the chastity device unless permission is given to the black bull by the hotwife to hold the key.
The cuckold must obey any sexual request made by the hotwife.
The cuckold is responsible for all cleaning of any and all sex toys.
The hotwife will determine when the cuckold will be allowed to ejaculate.
The cuckold is required to perform “clean up” duties – that is, to lick the hotwife’s pussy clean after she has been serviced and stretched by her black bull(s).
The cuckold will be allowed to remove the chastity device in order to jerk off, but ONLY while cleaning his hotwife’s cum filled pussy.
The cuckold will be allowed to remove the chastity device for sanitary cleaning purposes.
The hotwife and cuckold will watch interracial porn daily.
The hotwife will humiliate the cuckold daily by:
Comparing the cuckolds small white dick to her bulls huge black cock
Sharing the details of her encounters
The hotwife telling cuckold in front of the black bull how small cuckold penis is.
The hotwife telling the cuckold what a lousy lover he is and how wonderful her black bull is.
The hotwife always comparing the size of black men’s penis to cuckold’s penis.
The hotwife laughing at the size of the cuckold’s penis.
The hotwife reminding the cuckold of how less of a man he is for having a small penis and not having enough seed to impregnate her.
The cuckold must accept all humiliation without getting angry or disappointed.
The cuckold will facilitate sexual encounters with black bulls by:
Purchasing sexy clothing for hotwife.
Creating online profiles in order to meet black bulls.
Taking the hotwife to locations where she can meet black bulls.
Preparing the hotwife for her dates.
The cuckold will prepare all items for the hotwife and her black bull before their meeting.
The cuckold will follow any and all instruction given by the hotwife and her black bull during their meeting.
The hotwife may have sexual relation with other black men as much as she may choose.
The hotwife may have sexual relations with other black men wherever she may choose.
The hotwife has the right to have sexual relations with more than one black man at a time or multiple partners at a time.
Rights of the Black Bull
The bull has the right to the hotwife’s vagina.
The bull has the right to hold the key to the cuckold’s chastity device if the hotwife so wishes.
The bull has the right to humiliate the cuckold any time he wants.
The bull has the right to give instruction to the cuckold.
The bull has the right to ejaculate inside the hotwife’s vagina.
The bull has the right to ejaculate inside the hotwife’s mouth.
The cuckold cannot back out of this agreement and cannot change his mind about the hotwife having sexual relations with black men once this contract is signed.
At the conclusion of the 3 month trial period, the couple will have 1 week to determine if the agreement will terminate or be extended. Extensions will last for 6 month intervals.
The aforementioned agreements will take effect from the date of the Cuckold Contract signing. All agreements are to start on this day. This contract is legal furthermore the cuckold cannot take any legal action in a court of law against the hotwife for any of these agreements including having sexual relations with black men outside of this marriage. If cuckold breaks this agreement and does not allow the hotwife to do all of the things that are listed in this agreement, he will pay the cuckoldress $500,000 in cash and the hotwife keeps the house. This Cuckold Contract is agreed upon by both parties because of the inability of the cuckold to satisfy the hotwife sexually.
Hotwife_____________________________Date________________
Cuckold_________________________________Date________________
And a more formal contract.
Cuckold Contract Formal
WIFE Husband Cuckold Contract
IT IS AGREED, on this the _______ day, of the month of _______________, in the year ____ and between the couple known as ___________________________________, henceforth referred to as Wife and her present husband _____________________________, henceforth referred to as the Husband and ____________________ henceforth known as Master, Black Lover or Black Bull:
Tthe Husband knowingly and willingly agrees to surrender all control to Wife in their sexual relationship and agrees to support her actions with other men whom she may choose, for both of their enjoyments, but particularly for her sexual pleasure and fulfillment.
Husband agrees to enthusiastically serve her and her lovers in any manner, fashion, desire and or request that she may suggest. In addition, Husband surrenders his role as ‘Head of the house’ in the traditional sense and instead agrees to function as a submissive supporter of Wife in her search for sexual variety, satisfaction and fulfillment. In such a position he agrees to be used as her servant and for her amusement.
Wife will determine when Husband has sex, if he has sex, and in what manner either by masturbation, with Her or another woman or another man. Wife may determine husband is not permitted to have sex at all and if he should disobey her and secretly masturbate he may be subjected to any manner or procedure to ensure that he does not disobey her in this manner again.
By signing this contract, Wife and husband acknowledge that husband is inferior to wife and incapable of satisfying her sexual desires and that his role in their relationship while not necessarily that of a ‘slave’ is that of a servant. He agrees to obey her in every aspect of their relationship. For example, should Wife determine that husband is boring and useless she may decide not to have sex with him and she may, at her discretion, have him fitted for a chastity device.
The Wife and husband further acknowledge that the term “Wife “, for the purposes of this contract, does not indicate, or signify, prostitution in any form, and that the term “husband or Black Lover or Black Bull”, for the purposes of this contract, doesn’t indicate, or signify, ownership of an enslaved or indentured individual’ (the husband) although that may be the practical result of this agreement.
Furthermore, by signing this contract, the Wife acknowledges that her personal beliefs are such that She believes other man to be sexually superior to husband and that She, as a woman, is entitled to have relationships with these men to engage in and receive sexual pleasure(s) and fulfillment within such relationships. As a result, the Wife acknowledges she desires to engage in such relationships.
Consequently, husband agrees to support and facilitate Wife in Her pursuit of sexual pleasure(s) and Her fulfillment in these affairs. He willingly agrees not to interfere or prevent Wife from enjoying other men in these situations. Husband will assist Wife and will enthusiastically support Wife and be Her servant in order to facilitate any desired conditions of sexual pleasure the Wife may specify.
In consideration of Her wishes and interests and commitment in this sexual arrangement husband agrees to abide by all the tenets and conditions outlined within this contract and acknowledges his inferiority to other males as sexual partners and he willingly agrees to be used as her servant to Her and her ‘playmates’ as more clearly detailed in this agreement.
TERM. The Wife acknowledges that the duration of this contract shall be from the date of signing this agreement until such time as She may choose to terminate it. Termination of this contract is not an option that the husband may exercise as he has voluntarily and of his own free will given to Wife authority and control of their sexual relationship which includes Her right to engage in sex with other men or women on a continual and permanent basis.
OBLIGATIONS. The Wife fully acknowledges that she is no longer obligated to husband in any way. She is free to engage in the following regarding Her appearance, behavior, and demeanor whenever She is in the presence of other men. Husband encouraged Wife almost since the time of their marriage to engage in sexual behavior with other men. Wife continuously refused and remained faithful to husband. One evening while at a club where they were members Wife experienced sex with another man and discovered She enjoyed it better than with husband. She was surprised that the sexual union she’d experienced was so much better than what she enjoyed with her husband. Husband was pleased Wife had taken a positive step toward exploring Her sexuality and Wife immediately determined to explore her sexuality ‘a little further’. Wife invited a black friend of the couple over to their house late one evening and graciously permitted husband to watch Her enjoy sex with their friend for the remainder of the evening and she even allowed husband to pleasure himself while he watched them. Wife so enjoyed Her sexual relationship with Her black lover that she invited Her black lover back the following evening so she could enjoy him further. This agreement has been written following the latest ‘adventure’ of Wife and husband.
i. The Wife will be dominant in their marital relationship and husband will be submissive, meek, and passive towards her (at all times) along with any other man and or woman with whom Wife is engaged and in any and all circumstances.
ii. The husband will respectfully and humbly address any and all men as “Sir” and any and all women as “Ma’am”, or any other title that Wife deems necessary or appropriate, at all times and in all circumstances.
iii. The Wife may direct husband to facilitate Her sexual explorations as She deems to be appropriate. Husband will not make a demand upon Wife for sexual favors more than once per month.
iv. The Wife may actively and enthusiastically engage in sexual intercourse with other men and there are no prohibitions placed upon her as to how or when she may do so.
v. The Wife may actively and enthusiastically engage in fellatio without the use of condoms, and receive either oral or facial ejaculation, without hesitation or trepidation, as She may desire. Wife may direct husband to perform fellatio upon her lovers and receive oral or facial ejaculation, as well.
vi. The Wife may actively and enthusiastically engage in anal sex with men, without the use of condoms, and receive internal ejaculation, without hesitation or trepidation.
vii. The Wife may actively and enthusiastically perform cunnilingus on other females, without hesitation or trepidation and she may order husband to do so, as well.
viii. The Wife may actively and enthusiastically engage in performing sex acts with beasts, without hesitation or trepidation and she may order her husband to do so as well. For example, She may order husband to perform oral sex upon a dog or other animal and then view the animal mounting her husband her amusement.
ix. The Wife may actively and enthusiastically engage in performing sex acts by using dildos, rubber cocks and other adult toys and play with herself to facilitate her satisfaction including fucking husband with strap-ons her amusement and his humiliation or sexual release.
x. The husband will enthusiastically swallow his semen along with seminal fluids deposited in his mouth from other men.
xi. The husband will enthusiastically consume all seminal fluids deposited from other men upon any inanimate objects, or within Wife’s vagina or mouth unless instructed not to do so by Wife.
xii. The husband will enthusiastically receive any inanimate object commonly referred to as a “sex toy” in his anus or mouth when instructed by Wife.
xiii. The Wife will determine what clothing she will wear or not wear in any given situation and determine what make-up She may consider appropriate.
xiv. The husband will never, under any circumstances or for any reason, wear any clothing inside their house in order to permit wife to view his state of sexual arousal.
xv. The husband will never, under any circumstances or for any reason behave inappropriately to wife in public and will follow her when walking in public at a respectable distance as determined by Wife.
xvi. The Wife will never, under any circumstances or for any reason, wear a dress or skirt in public with a hemline lower than mid-thigh, unless circumstances dictate.
xvii. The Wife will always have her makeup and hair styled in a fashion that will result in her appearance being that of a person considered by the general public to be cheap, trashy, or sleazy, unless specifically ordered not to do so by her Master.
xviii. The Wife will always have the area of her vagina made up of the labia and clitoris, completely shaven and hairless, and the area of her vagina known as the pubis mound styled, trimmed, or shaved in a fashion to her Master’s discretion, at all times and in all circumstances, unless specifically ordered not to do so by her master.
xix. Husband may on occasion wear a dog collar and be led around on all fours on a leash by Wife at her discretion for amusement when in doors.
xx. The Wife may regard herself and her body as a physical object, with all rights, independence, opinions, or convictions. Husband will consider himself to be a piece of material property that is a possession of Wife at all times and in all circumstances.
xxi. The husband will graciously and sincerely thank Wife for granting him honor and privilege of serving her and her Black Bull or her sexual lovers, both male and female.
xxii. The Wife may do anything she desires not listed within this document, if she so decides. She may wish to do so for the purpose of her sexual pleasure and amusement, at all times and in all circumstances.
MATERNAL CONCESSION; The husband acknowledges that since he has agreed to regard his physical body as material property owned by Wife and he agrees that he has conceded all rights to Wife as her former husband and he has given Her willingly to Master, Black Bull, Lover and other men and women. While couple has no children Wife may consequently realizes that Her position within Her family as a wife and companion takes second place within their new relationship.
DOCUMENTATION; The husband further acknowledges that Wife and her lovers and playmates whom he has given her to, posses the exclusive right to photograph, videotape, record, and/or document husband in any manner they may choose, and in any situation they choose.
Furthermore, the husband hereby releases all rights, financial, proprietary, or otherwise, to all photographs, videotapes, movies, audio-recordings, computer media recordings, or any other form of documentation used to record or chronicle husband during the duration of this contract and for a period of no less than five (5) years after contract is terminated.
The husband therefore acknowledges that he has allowed Wife to explore Her sexuality and that She has exclusive rights to any and all photographs, videotapes, movies, audio-recordings, computer media recordings, or any other documentation of their electronic reproductions.
CONTRACTUAL POSSESSION; Husband acknowledges that his legal obligation is to the contract itself and to Wife and any man or woman who may be of current interest to Wife.
DISSOLUTION; Husband further agrees that all sexual rights which he at one time possessed are dissolved. Husband surrenders any vested interest in Wife to Master along with other men and women (Her lovers) and he will no longer be permitted to masturbate in any fashion or at any time without her express approval.
The husband agrees to a penalty, as determined by Wife, if he fails to meet the terms and conditions of this agreement and there will be no limits upon such a penalty or punishment which she may impose including that he may be used ‘as a woman’ by her male lovers.
I, ________________________________________, being of sound mind and of legal age to enter into a legally binding contract, do hereby proclaim that I have read and understand this contract in its entirety, and that I agree to abide by and comply with all the tenets, conditions, and provisions contained within.
I further acknowledge that I believe, with no uncertainty or doubt, that I being a white woman that black men are biologically superior to white men (including my husband) and that I, as a wife and a white woman, am biologically predetermined and conditioned to be used by such men in order to realize sexual fulfillment and physical pleasure (sexual enjoyment) and entertainment. Further, husband admits he is physically incapable of providing me with these pleasures. While we did not anticipate this circumstance during our dating, engagement and early marital years; we now have agreed to a new relationship and ‘husband serves me more as a servant than a husband’.
We therefore agree to this contract in its entirety and agree to take full responsibility and to be held fully accountable for any and all penalties outlined within should either partner violate this contract in any manner, having agreed to this without reservation, and having signed under my own free will and without any duress.
Given by His Wife ____________________________________________ Dated__________________
Signature of agreement of the husband
_________________________________________ __________________
__________________________________________ _____________________
These of course are not exhaustive and can be tweaked or re-written to suit your own needs and desires. I am not entirely sure if they are templates or have been posted elsewhere or written by members from here, but they can help clarify the agreement.
I hope to hear your thoughts.
Debasing & rough edge terminology?
But I question why then are words like Slut: For which I known of at least three different meanings
Cock & Pussy which are slang words, among about a million others for the same organs etc. Etc.
This is our version:
Cuckold Marriage Contract a.k.a. Female Sexually Led Relationship
This contract forms a binding agreement between the two parties named below in respect to their cuckold marriage:
(Hot) wife Stella & (Cuckold) Husband Nicky
agree to comply with the following terms of this binding agreement.
This contract is valid only under the following circumstances, when there is a mere sexual context: private sexual meetings, swinger clubs, swinger beaches etc. Bulls shall not interfere with the couples’ private life.
This agreement creates a three-month period whereby the hotwife will be a slut, and the husband will be a cuckold subject to sexual control, deprivation and enforced chastity.
This means that:
Now the hotwife will not have obligatory sexual relations with the husband and is rather liberated and released from other promises which forbade her to worship and satisfy other men’s cocks as she may see fit. Furthermore, the cuckold is subject to remain in certain conditions of chastity if prescribed by the wife. The hotwife will obtain and hold the key to a chastity device if she deems it useful and necessary for her purposes. In absence of such a device, the husband must follow the hotwife’s orders to remain chaste.
Essential Duties of the (Cuckold) Husband
The cuckold must obey any sexual request made by the hotwife.
The cuckold is responsible for all cleaning of any and all sex toys.
The hotwife will determine when or if the cuckold will be allowed to ejaculate.
The cuckold husband may be allowed to remove the chastity device in order to jerk off.
Rights of the (Hot)wife
The right to humiliate the cuckold at any time by:
Comparing the cuckolds small dick to that of any other man she has been with.
Giving her cuckold husband the right to share all graphic details.
Concealing or sharing the graphic the details of her dates and encounters.
The right to tell her cuckold in front of selected other men or women how small the husband’s penis is comparatively.
The right to tell her cuckold husband (in front of selected other men or women) if she may choose to do so how relatively inadequate he is as a sexual partner compared to any other man she may mention.
The right to joke, ridicule and laugh at the size of the cuckold husband’s penis whenever she orders him to be undressed in her presence.
The Rules of Engagement
The cuckold husband must accept all humiliation, ridicule, arbitrary decisions and surprises without ever showing or expressing anger, disappointment or resentment.
The cuckold will facilitate sexual encounters with her bull(s) by:
Creating online content and profiles in order to meet interesting men.
Taking the hotwife to appropriate and desirable locations where she can meet interested guys.
Preparing the wife for her dates by suggesting outfits including special undergarments, then laying them out for her before attentively bathing, shaving and dressing her.
The cuckold husband will follow any and all instructions or requests given by the wife and her date before, during and after their meeting.
The husband shall understand and accept that the wife may have sexual relations with other men as much and as often as she may choose without asking permission, negotiating or clearing it with the husband who in turn shall not sulk, mope or complain in any manner whatsoever, and he shall understand that the wife has the explicit right to have sexual relations with more than one man at a time or multiple partners at a time on the same said terms.
Rules for the Bull as a Third Party Beneficiary
The bull may not perform any action which entails exchange of bodily fluids. Thus, he may NOT engage in kissing, licking the hotwife’s vagina, ejaculating in the hotwife’s mouth or vagina, have her perform fellatio on his unprotected cock, perform anal sex or inflict physical pain on the hotwife.
Rights of the Bull as a Third Party Beneficiary
The right to dictate if, when and how the husband may touch, taste, or see the wife’s vagina, when the cuckold husband is present. The bull may also use the husband sexually, if he so wishes.
The right to supervise and amend the cuckold husband’s chastity arrangement if the wife so wishes.
The right to humiliate the cuckold husband any time he wants whether face to face, by phone, text or email without regard to the presence or absence of the wife. He is encouraged to send explicit footage, audio and photos of the sexual encounter to the cuckold husband and share all details of it.
The right to fuck the wife privately if he shall choose without the presence of the husband in the room, the house, the hotel or the state.
The right to fuck or use the wife in the particular manner he shall choose without the previous understanding of the husband as to the above limits or rules.
General Provisions
The cuckold husband or the hotwife may unilaterally terminate this agreement before the contract expires on the date set forth hereinabove.
At the conclusion of the initial three-month period, the contract will be terminated. Any new agreement after reconsideration period must be set forth in writing and signed by both parties after a reconsideration period of two weeks. The silence of either party shall be construed as consent to not extend this contract and to not make it binding for the following intervals.
In witness whereof the parties voluntarily, without undue duress or pressure, set forth their legal binding signatures on this date.
Thank you, we used this contract to make ours.
I am a lawyer and I enjoy writing concise but effective contracts. I also do not care fro some of the debasing and rough edge terminology often tossed around. I hope a woman might find this version of the Sussex to be enticing. Just running it up the flagpole, With due credit to Sussex Couple.
Cuckold Marriage Contract a.k.a. Female Led Relationship
This contract forms a binding agreement between the two parties named below in respect to their cuckold marriage:
(Hot) wife _________________ & (Cuckold) Husband ____________________
agree to comply with the following terms of this binding agreement.
Whereas This agreement creates a three month trial period whereby the hotwife will become a slut, and the husband will become a cuckold subject to sexual control, deprivation and enforced chastity
This means that
Now Therefore the hotwife will not have obligatory sexual relations with the husband and is rather liberated and released from other promises which forbade her to worship and satisfy other men’s cocks as she may see fit. Furthermore, the cuckold is strictly subject to remain in certain conditions of chastity as such may be prescribed by the wife in order that there will be no temptation by either person to relax this agreement. The hotwife will obtain and hold the key to a chastity device if she .deems it useful and necessary for her purposes.
Essential Duties of the (Cuckold) Husband
The cuckold must obey any sexual request made by the hotwife.
The cuckold is responsible for all cleaning of any and all sex toys.
The hotwife will determine when or if the cuckold will be allowed to ejaculate.
The cuckold is required to perform “clean up” duties – that is, to lick the (hot)wife’s pussy clean after she has been fucked. The cuckold husband may be allowed to remove the chastity device in order to jerk off, but ONLY while cleaning his hotwife’s cum filled pussy.
Rights of the (Hot)wife
The right to pre-approve and and all porn which the husband may inspect or view.
The right to humiliate the cuckold at any time by:
The right to compare the cuckolds small dick to that of any other man she has been with.
VII. The right to share or conceal all the graphic the details of her dates and encounters.
The right to tell her cuckold in front of any other man or woman how small the husband’s penis is comparatively.
The right to tell her cuckold husband (in front of any other man or woman) if she may choose to do so how relaltvely inadequate he is a a sexual partner compared to any other man she may mention.
The right to joke, ridicule and laugh at the size of the cuckold husband’s penis whenever she orders him to be undressed in her presence.
The right to remind the cuckold husband of how less of a man he is for not having enough staying power to impregnate her.
The Rules of Engagement
The cuckold husband must accept all humiliation, ridicule, arbitrary decisions and surprises without ever showing or expressing anger.disappointment or resentment.
The cuckold will facilitate sexual encounters with her various boyfriends by:
A. Purchasing sexy clothing and shoes for the wife on his own initiative and keeping a list of her sizes and style preferences..
B. Creating online content and profiles in order to meet interesting men.
C. Taking the hotwife to appropriate and desirable locations where she can meet interested guys.
D. Preparing the wife for her dates by suggesting outfits including special undergarments, then laying them out for her before attentively bathing, shaving and dressing her.
E. The husband will do all house-cleaning and organizing to prepare the house and make sure the boyfriend’s favorite beverage is in the home and the husband will greet the Boyfriend welcome him and serve the refreshment to the Boyfriend upon his arrival before the date with his wife.
F. The cuckold husband will follow any and all instructions or requests given by the wife and her date before, during and after their romantic meeting.
G. The husband shall understand nd accept that the wife may have sexual relations with other men as much and as often as she may choose without asking permission, negotiating or clearing it with the husband who in turn shall not sulk, mope or complain in any manner whatsoever and he shall understand that the wife has the explicit right to have sexual relations with more than one man at a time or multiple partners at a time on the same said terms
Rights of the Steady Boyfriend as a Third Party Beneficiary
The right to dictate if, when and how the husband may touch, taste, or see the wife’s vagina.
The right to supervise and amend the cuckold husband’s chastity arrangement if the wife so wishes.
The right to humiliate or embarrass the cuckold husband any time he wants whether face to face, by phone, text or email without regard to the presence or absence of the wife.
The right to use the cuckold husband for his own mundane tasks, errands and personal chores without “going through” the wife first.
The right to fuck the wife privately if he shall choose without the presence of husband in the room, the house, the hotel or the state.
The right to fuck or use the wife in the particulatr manner he shall choose without the previous understanding of the husband as to certain limits or rules.
General Provisions
The cuckold husband cannot unilaterally terminate this agreement until the contact expires on the date set forth hereinabove.
At the conclusion of the initial three month trial period, the couple will have a single two week hiatus-consideration peeriod in order to determine if the agreement will terminate or be extended. Any amendments or revisions of this agreement must be set forth in writing and signed by both parties only during that reconsideration period in order to be effective going forward. The silence of either party shall be construed as consent to extend this contract and make it binding for one or more successive six month intervals.
Enforcement – If either party acts ro abrogate or breach this contract against the wishes of the other party outiside of the reconsdedrfation period provided for hereinabove. His or her prior voluntary participation may be made generally know to friends family and public by means of social media conversation or general gossip without compensation therefore.
In witness whereof the parties voluntarily, without undue duress or pressure set forth their legal binding signatures on this date
(Hot)wife _____________________________Date________________
(Cuckold) Husband_________________________________Date________________
Gay pride celebrates something which was ostracised and society is sort of saying sorry, we now accept that you are attracted to the same sex and that is ok. Cuckolding is an acquired pastime, a learned behaviour. At best it is a deep marital understanding relationship, at worst a marriage on the rocks. The average public would frown on cuckolds many seeing them as losers who could not keep their wives but hang on as their wife builds a relationship with someone else. In many cases that is what is happening, the husband is on his way out. Some may view the cuckold as mentally ill in that he destroys his relationship to satisfy a deep mental need. Cuck pride not a good idea
Well thats fair enough Nigel, but there are other prides too, I get some people may say gay people have no choice, but then bisexual people seem to. Some cuckolds such as myself have no choice due to my medical condition.
Thanks for this well written article Sussex
I fully support there needs to be rules in the marriage before you start playing with cuckolding in any form. And the rules that works for one couple could certainly not work for another couple, as we’re all very different persons.
I’m also having the view too strict rules takes some of the magic away, sex is not something you can plan and describe in details without loosing a lot of the spontaneity which we think is key. But others may see it differently.
For my own part, cuckolding or in fact having sex with others was a long journey. We literally fantasized for years and talked a lot about inviting another male to have sex with her. It ended up being me taking the initiative with a gift card to a “kinky massage”. The guy giving the massage was picked by me, and we all three met before and also exchanged several emails.
The evening was a well planned event, almost with time schedule down to 5min intervals, but it was still giving some unexpected emotions: My wife was very happy with the very well endowed man I’ve found and I clearly heard her whispering in his ear “you got the biggest and most sexy cock I’ve ever had”. I’ve just seen another man’s erect penis for first time in live and I just felt so embarrased the night almost ended for me there. It took some days to come over, and my wife later said she specifically said so because the thought it would turn me on… so a classic example on how things can be misunderstood.
Another example: She was alone in town with her friends. We usually enjoy her flirting and coming back and telling me about it but that night she came home very late and very drunk. We had sex while she told me about a guy she’d met, kissed with and he even took her to the bathroom. It was steaming hot and she said “he wanted me to suck him”… and a few moments later “what would you say if I did?”… I could clearly feel how turned on she was but right there I said “I hope you didn’t”.. and she said “of course not”.
But I wasn’t sure as she was so horny and the next morning I stalked the guy, and texted him in the afternoon “Thanks for yesterday”. He thought it was my wife of course, but I told him who I was and we played a game when she’s in town. He was friendly and told almost the same story except she sucked him of course.
I was really disappointed but also turned on. We had a good talk in the afternoon, where I told her I wasn’t disappointed at all she sucked him but felt betrayed because she didn’t told me and even denied when I confronted her. We (or me actually) wrote a 1-page ground rules about what to do in town without informing me, what to inform me about and what to ask for permission for. It was a good way for us to set expectations and she even carried it on her phone for a while. Now Covid has blocked that funny game though, so haven’t practiced in a while.
For her last date, which was her first date alone with a man we’d had a threesome with before, there were no written rules. But the guy and I are getting along well and we had talked about what to do and what not to do, so I felt quite relaxed sending her up to him. But again, the more “experienced” you get, the lesser written rules are needed.
The two examples of contracts are interesting. And while the first one could be quite good as inspiration, I find the second one way too detailed and more like a wanking fantasy than something anyone would use in real life.
Yes it are the chastity contract for have owned .