Reply To: I need help understanding this

You don’t give a lot of detail beyond her simple expression of that desire. You don’t say WHAT she said when, as you put it, she “tried talking to me about it”. Does she still want you? Does she merely want the freedom to date other people, with you free to do the same. Does she want a threesome with you and another guy? Does she want you to watch her have sex with another guy. I wonder too if you think she’s satified with the sex the two of you have.

If the idea doesn’t turn you on in any way she might not be the girl for you. But if it does she might be just the one.