Reply To: 'Something new'

Thank you for your comment Gracie. Yes, I always feared that C might want to go back to having more than one lover. That was a big part of her before we married. I have always been tremendously grateful that she chose me and she has always been the dominant partner sexually – so putting her first is not the problem. But I’d forgotten entirely the stomach churning panic, dread, angst that comes with this territory. I am by nature jealous – I want her to be mine and mine alone. We are just starting the conversation and I have so many questions. How will we keep it from the kids? Does she want a long term bf or and occasional lover? Will I know him? Will we still make love?