Marriage Evolved › discussion › Lifestyle Discussions › Member Success Stories › Total orgasm denial success in many ways › Reply To: Total orgasm denial success in many ways

Hi Keith, for me it is not at my expense or my wife wants me to go to hell. In the early years when we explored this lifestyle we came across chastity. We tried it and to be honest it gave a physical and mental rest. We both discovered I was and stil am more happy when I am experiencing long orgasm denial. The male orgasm takes about 3-10 seconds (average) while my mental state is permanent. Michelle knows I prefer the mental state over a max of 10 seconds relief. She loves me and she would let me orgasm if she know it would make me happy. And to be honest sometimes I do want to orgasm but when Michelle does edge me she can read my mind and body and knows I feel better when she will lock my cage again without an orgasm for me. So it is not selfish of her to cut me of but an act of love from a wife to her husband and cuckold.
but as it is different for everybody I know some husbands (cuckolds) does need to be able to jerk and orgasm while watching or even have sex with their wife and are allowed to. So please understand that it is different for everybody.
A very loving cuckold