Reply To: falling in love with Her lover

Hubbyathome –
Now with fact what happened, from a retro perspective;
What are your and your wife’s thoughts on the affaire with her boss and hes (ex?) wife?
Do you feel any regrets or sympathy or understanding for his (ex?) wife?
Do you and your wife consider that your involvement were a direct contributing cause of the boss (ex?) wife leaving him?
Do you think it was worth it for your own sexual kink?
Did the boss and hes (ex?) wife have children?
Is it something you would do again?

Hercuckslav –
I would like to ask the same questions to you and your wife about Nic. (From what I know, Nic’s wife does not know about his affair with your wife, nor has he left him.)
Yes I know Nics wife dont know about your wife and hes affaire. And yes, I also know Nic and hes wife have children. And yes, I also know Nic and your wife are exclusive now. And that you and your wife’s marriage are more “platonic friends” – where sexual intimacy is excluded (except on very few occasions).

To you both Hubbyathome and Hercuckslav: Do you feel that you should take or need to take responsibility for the potential negative consequences and risks for the man you choose to involve in your own sexual kink?
Or..
Do you think that everyone involved is an adult and can take responsibility for their own actions?