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Dave, you really seems to be a supportive and helpful husband and family man. Going 4hrs drive to help a cousin at his farm with a lot (I think) to do on your own is really outstanding.
“work goes where work gets done” is a local proverb where I come from. Make sure you still see and take care of yourself in all this. I’m really concerned others take advantage of you in many ways, make sure you take care of your own needs too.
A poly marriage on the current conditions will not make Wayne a second husband. You will be the second husband and Wayne the first and preferred.
Are you really willing to this?