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Dave, I sent you a long private message that may
have misread the situation. I really thought Wayne
was a bad actor that wanted to ruin your lives in
his love of power.
I am surprised that you dread Wayne leaving,
I would be jumping for joy. I do want to thank you
for posting, as the dynamic made me think about
my past relationships, one of which was abusive.
Do you realize that you and Jenn both took
a huge risk? Will you and Jenn be “owned”
by Wayne going forward? Will he be calling the shots?
How much time will Jenn and Wayne be on the
phone once he is gone?
Assuming Jenn opts to stay with you what will
you do to reset the marriage? If you did not
please Jenn in the past, didn’t she
hold out on you by not communicating?
Do you really think the chemistry with Wayne will
last forever? (unlikely) She will mourn the fact
that he is gone how will you fill the gap?
What is your daily contact like with Jenn?
When was the last time you bought Jenn flowers?
Get some sweet cards. Leave notes on a
card each day. Tell her how much you love her. What she
means to you. Tell and text her every day how much you love her.
Each day you must remind her of the most special times you
have shared with her.
I am dumbfounded by her behavior in all of this. If she
still loves you,(I think she does) you have a lot
of communicating to do. I now think a lot of the
conventional wisdom about women is B.S.
Let’s face it women can behave like animals. 🙂