Reply To: Others figuring it out

My wife’s friends (ladies) knows she has permission to flirt and even more when she’s out with them. I was not clear in the beginning, but they started asking questions, and one night one even saw my wife disappeared to the restrooms at a club with a guy to give him a blowjob. The friend is also knowing me, so we decided the next day my wife better tell her it was “with permission” so she didn’t felt she was witnessing my wife cheating that night.

The other ladies has taken it real cool, in fact I think they envy my wife a little. I’m not sure – but I suppose – they have told their husbands too, but none of them has ever mentioned a word to me.

I think it depends a lot on how your friends are and how morally open they are. And another thing is what they promise to keep for themselves when they are sober, what happens when the night comes and they get drunk and “has a fun story to tell”?

My recommendation is to keep it secret when possible, and only tell if and what is needed