Re: Had “The Talk”

Thanks for the advice mic. We do a lot of chastity play as is (don’t wear a CB often because it gets in the way when I’m at work), and she really does enjoy it. I try to keep it low pressure most of the time and just follow her lead. It’s been a long road, but we’ve gotten to the point where she genuinely seems to understand my submissive side and engage it when she’s in the mood. I’m a submissive 100% of the time, she’s a Domme maybe 20% of the time, and it works well for us.

As far as how often I go down on her, not nearly as often as I’d like. Real life interference (work, kids, etc) tends to restrict the amount of time we have to get intimate, and she’s been in a bit of a low libido slump since we had our second kid (it happened while she was breast feeding with the first as well, so most likely a temporary situation). But I go down on her probably about once a week, and probably every other week or so it’s dedicated just to her without any reciprocation. She’s not the kind of woman that wants it 3 times a day. If she was, I’d be happy to oblige! But around the house I do most of the housework, run most of the errands, and cook her breakfast whenever I can.

Thanks again for the advice!