Re: Had “The Talk”

I can relate.  First of all, let's give your lovely wife her props for being a loyal, committed wife to you. Sometimes I ask the question,”Jeez, how good do you have to have it?”  But having said that, I feel similarly.  I have not been cuckolded, and depending on the time of day, I vary in my desire or confidence that I could adapt to it adequately.  My wife's initial reaction was similar to your wife's.  However, by not pushing too hard, especially when it isn't a sexual situation anyway (because the topic is not as 'loaded in the cold light of day'), she plays and fantasizes more and more about  it with me.  I have had her try to find me some sexy books online, for instance.  That way she takes part in the pursuit, without feeling pressured.  Also, my wife loves to drink wine and I find I can play more about my fantasies when she has had some wine.  We also keep our own romantic fires burning by getting away frequently where the energy can be spent almost totally on romantic notions, or mild public humiliations such as me holding her bags or her purse while she stands there in her sexy boots trying on clothes or walking ahead of me, etc.  Loving patience will continue to serve you well, Veritas.