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LuvrI have to say, unfortunately, that your marriage currently lacks the foundation necessary for a healthy cuckolding relationship.
Your wife clearly took advantage of you previously and had little worry or concern for your needs or wishes during her 'affair' and I say affair because she wasn't open with her activities – a complete violation of love and trust.
Cuckolding is no different than a vanilla marriage in that compromise is always necessary by all parties involved.
Your relationship now is only closer because he dumped her and you took her back – has she learned anything from that? Have you spoken openly about your pain caused by her apparent lack of concern for your needs before he kicked her to the curb?
I've know other couples to go through this and learn from it, but for that to happen here, you two need to have some frank conversations about the mistakes of the past, the desires of the future and how to ensure those desires, for both of you, won't lead to repeating those mistakes.