Re: How do I convince my wife to let me watch?

It’s not at all uncommon for the wife and/or her boyfriend to be nervous/uncomfortable about having the husband watching them, but the bottom line is that this is an experience you two, as a couple, are supposed to be sharing in. Never being allowed to see them together, coupling, is as selfish as you saying you always have to be present with them for it to happen.

Compromise is a necessary part of any relationship and a hotwife/boyfriend/cuckold relationship is no different. You have already done the big compromise of inviting another male into your marriage – now it’s their turn to recognize that by trying to grow beyond where they are currently comfortable. They way you do that is step by step.

•       join them in a social setting where she is his date (perhaps several times)
•       then spend time as a threesome at home together before they have their privacy in bed
•       then encourage them to enjoy their making out in front of you
•       then volunteer to help undress her for them while they make out
•       then follow them to the bedroom and witness their foreplay in bed, but leave them once he’s ready to mount her
•       then stay long enough only to see him mount and enter her
•       then, finally, stay and witness their coupling in its entirety