Re: How to Bring out the Sex Drive

I’ve been married for over 20 years.  My wife is a real knockout 42DD blonde.  Curvy and taller than me with her ‘fuck-me’ heels on.  Occasionally (of course!) we’ll have a fight about something stupid.  We usually make up pretty quick, butwe both can be pretty firey!  So, I know that she DOES have an ‘in-charge’ side to her personality.  And, she seems to have grown more sexually oriented over the years (as most women do) and I have begun to experience the loss of testosterone (as well as its side effects…) that most men experience in their forties and beyond.  So… to make a long story short… I had this great idea… in order to ‘plant a seed of horniness in her brain’, I told her that if she really wanted a great, long and hard fuck, that she could CONTROL the time and date by literally TAKING CONTROL over my cock (or HER cock, as I told her…) with a ‘little blue pill’!  Bingo!  I didn’t NEED the pill, but it put her in charge of our (HER!) sex life.  I put her in charge of my cock, and her pleasure.  So, now she could plan to be in control of the sexual pleasure in her life.

No chastity device needed!  She was in control of my sexual release and excitement.  Which in turn… became HER excitement.  It didn’t hit her at first, but when she started to think about it, and she realized how in control she was in planning for HER night of sexual pleasure, she REALLY got horny!!  She’d think about it for days.  And she’d tell me when she was planning for HER fuck night!  Our lovemaking events had just become HER planned sexual release events.  Not mine, HERS.  She was in control.

So, it worked.  I got her into the mindset of controlling my orgasms.  And if we had a little argument, and she wanted to express who was in charge, she could delay my release a few more days.  She was becoming (unknowingly to her) my DOMINANT Mistress. 

So all the years of having sex with my wife and enjoying my sexual release, and her occassionally NOT experiencing sexual release (just ask any woman and they’ll tell you… they don’t always have an orgasm during sex), was now completely reversed.  She would be able to pursue, plan and control her own sexual pleasure and I would be ‘used’ be her, albeit lovingly, towards that end.

So, now she has begun to take control… and I LOVE IT.  This is what I wanted after all, right?  To be controlled and ‘used’ as an instrument of HER pleasure. 

Now the next step is a tougher one… to convince her that she needs to, actually DESERVES to, experience even MORE sexual satisfaction in her lifetime and, that I lovingly would encourage her to pursue it as a mutual venture.  That is, the two of us, with myself lovingly encouraging her, to cuckold me and take steps to bring another real satisfying lover into our married life.  Someone that we would mutually pursue with my blessing and heartfelt encouragement.  All of the time, letting her know that the greater sexual pleasures that I want her to experience would also, reciprically, be felt by the excitement that I would feel knowing that my wife is truly being satisfied by a superior lover.  Now THAT is gonna take some time…

And we’ve talked about it.  After a few martinis and discussing our sexual fantasies (with my encouragement, of course…)as well as bringing up the ‘huge cock that just couldn’t be real’ that she experienced in her early college years (She said she held this monster cock in her hand and it would take over three of her gripped hands to cover it!  And it still makes her really horny to talk about that experience…), I got my wife to whisper in my ear, “I want a big black cock!” three times with real conviction and a sly smile!  So, I know that she definitely has some repressed big cock fantasies.  And, I’ve told her, that when the time is right, I really want her to feel what it really feels like to have a huge, satisfying throbbing cock deeply thrusting into her while she holds on for dear life, shrieking in complete ecstasy!  And that nothing else ‘short of this’ (haha!) could make me happier for her!

So, we will see.