Luvr
Keymaster
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    Tyler,

     

    It's a good sign that your wife was willing to admit to being at all interested in other men.

    Her “don't know” answers really mean “I'm nervous to talk about it”, which is to be expected since it's a pretty

    big issue for her to admit to her husband that she might have interest in other men.

    What if you were to then accuse her of wanting to cheat, for example. Yes, you had been asking her

    and likely obviously aroused by the conversation – which helped her open up as much as she did,

    but you'll have to do more to reassure her that this isn't some sort of trap.

    Talking about this outside the bedroom can also help. If you're out at dinner or shopping and among a crowd of men,

    start asking her quietly which men she would choose as a lover, or point one out to her quietly and suggest he might make

    a good choice for her 'boyfriend'. Your playfull manner will help disarm her reflexive denials and help her open up more.

     

    Let me know how it goes!