Re: Is this normal???!

Thanks for sharing that image of her; I can easily see why he took advantage of his time with her to spend as much of it inside her as he could. My question is why/how he became an ex that she still felt a sexual desire for..? When that happens it’s usually because the sex is great, but he’s lacking commitment or the empathy a woman looks for in a life partner. If you can be that life partner for her – that friend and partner – and still be supportive of her enjoying the male who pleasures her most in bed, you two could be well positioned for a hotwife/cuckold marriage.

The previous posters were correct: you need to talk to her about this and help her understand that your questions were less an interrogation and more of a desire to share in the experience with her. Sharing in it is what helps make it less threatening and enables you to enjoy the erotic aspect to what happened. If she were to do this again…or continue seeing her ex sexually, sharing it with you openly is the only way it can/should work.