Re: Relationship Changes

Hi there, thanks for the swift reply!

In short, I'm not sure what future role I'll have – that's one of the reasons we're taking things really slowly and sounding everything out first.

I've never been into the humiliation aspect of it, so I sometimes feel a little out of place being a dominant husband with a submissive wife when so many in the cuckold lifestyle seem to have the opposite!

As a dominant husband, I've pretty much pushed most of my wife's limits and I'd now like to sit back and watch someone else see what limits they could push her to.

It's sort of an extension of the control thing, I guess. I've got her to give herself to me completely and now I'd like her to submit herself to someone else as part of that, rather than instead of it. I'd like to see her allow herself to be used by another man because it pleases me for her to do it (although in our conversations about this, she's made it clear that it's something she'd really enjoy doing too!)

As a dominant I have enjoyed changing my wife to suit my needs, but now things have levelled off with her being my perfect submissive. The mischievous instinct in me wants to mix things up a little, push her out of her comfort zone and watch her go through all of those changes again as she obediently tries to make herself right for someone else, along with all of the crazy complications of trying to be 'right' for different people.

I hope you can see where I'm coming from as it's not as clear cut as the usual 'I'm not good enough for my wife so I want her to have someone better' scenario that I keep reading about.

Anyway, if there are any other dominant husbands out there (or submissive wives) who've had a similar experience please feel free to reply or message with ideas or to tell me how it worked out for you.

Thanks once again, Luvr, for that swift reply!

K