Re: Single cuckold looking for a wife

I was told by a black woman I dated back when I was in the military about a fair amount of discontent among many black women about the inability, or more precisely, the refusal of many black men to be a responsible partner in a relationship. While I wouldn't say this is something exclusive to any race, black children are born out of wedlock a significantly higher proportions (almost 70%). While marriage isn't a sign or guarantee of stability, it does at least hint at a desire to be responsible.

Something to remember is that the qualities that make someone a supportive, loving partner to a woman and the qualities that make a man sexually appealing to women are often not present in the same male – this is the core of why cuckolding can be the best solution for many couples.

Having said that, it's important to remember that cuckolding, to be successful as a lifestyle, must begin from the foundation of a loving, stable relationship. It's not the sex that makes cuckolding work, but rather the emotional 'equity' that allows both partners to take risks they otherwise wouldn't since they can both feel more confident in the relative strength of the marriage.