matmagic99
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    Well said.  We don't need to split hairs as to what is spiritual and what isn't, but the process of shedding one's old ego driven life(or relationship), which was important to build a life, is always a good step for further growth.  This may, or may not, enhance that process.  We should probably, as you said, act according to what is in front of us.  Perhaps later, upon reflection,  we may see it as growth, but we shouldn't delude ourselves into thinking we are doing it solely for growth purposes.  We may just be talking semantics here, because if a relationship is taken to a new level, then we have made spiritual (non-material) growth.  Enough said.  Thanks for your input.  They say that cuckolds are usually more sensitive, introspective individuals.  I can't quite see two bulls having this conversation, but I could be wrong.