Re: Strict, Experienced Dom in Raleigh, NC

nm4u,

      I am accustomed to knowing my cuckolds and Wives more personally, but without that personal knowledge I can say that as a standard I approach my role as a Dom in such a way that creates space and opportunity for you as a cuckold to fully realize and enjoy your potential as a submissive cuckold to myself and your Wife. In the same way a Hotwife needs the space and opportunity to open up to her potential as a Domme to her cuckold and a sexually vibrant partner to her Dom, a cuckold needs the same opportunity to open up his potential as a submissive to myself and my lover. In a basic way, this would flesh out as a standard that you are expected to be obedient to a fault at all times, and that you will not only be obedient but that creativity on your part in how you express your submission would also be encouraged. This holds true for my approach to training and leading Hotwives to be both Domme to their cuckolds and submissive to me. I treat and view the relationship I have with a couple as a relationship with both the Wife and cuckold. As a Dom I am a leader by nature and that includes leading you to fully engage your place as a cuckold, and your Wife to fully engage her rightful place as my lover.

      Referring to a basic tangible example, you would be trained in submission from every facet, to include your posture and tone of voice when we are together, to your physical acts of submission such as acts of service while my lover and I are together and apart. This would include standards such as when you are in our collective presence or when we feel it appropriate, you will keep you head down and speak only when we are speaking to you directly. In a similar way, a Hotwife should be given encouragement to open herself to her natural feminine strength and sexual vibrancy by being introduced to opportunities to break free from the confines of her cuckold’s sexual inadequacies.  

      You belong in chastity and bondage, and your are drawn to it because it is in your nature as a submissive. Your Wife is obviously deserving of a more sexually capable man, who can both lead and satisfy her at once. It sounds as if you are both on your way to great fulfillment.