Re: White slim short dick 31 y.o. guy seeking real cuckold marriage

Alex,

Your post is thoughtful and well-spoken, but the basis of a cuckold marriage is the willful and loving violation of traditional marital roles and concepts, so without that loving, respectful marriage, you cannot really experience a true cuckold marriage. Could you still experience being a woman’s submissive? Sure, but what makes cuckolding work; what makes it less of a threat and more of a pleasure for the cuckold is the confidence and certainty in their marriage. A marriage or relationship based on her sexual exploits with others simply can’t give you that sense of comfort which leaves you basically being her victim (someone who just accepts what’s done to you) and this is not what a submissive deserves. D/s works based on a sharing of power – you delegate authority to her because you want her to have it, but her power is moderated by just how much authority you’ve entrusted with her. Without a solid relationship between you, these mechanics don’t work.

What I encourage is that you explore your submission first and consider cuckolding as a natural progression of it once your relationship is firmly established as a couple, not just as Domme and submissive.