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Porn is a good way to introduce thoughts and give your wife if she hasnt had many partners an idea of the pleasure that comes from bigger cock if you organize the porn try and steer the content to this talk to your wife while watching look for changes in your wifes excitement toys is another way of introducing another cock to the bed make sure you compliment your wife al the time make her feel sexy buy her outfits that attract the attention of other men constantly reassuring her the power in her sexuality little steps never push as this is the worst thing you can do its along game but one worth the effort if you believe it is for you the lifestyle is the best thing that ever happened to me and my relationship with my wife its a journey that is taken together comunication is everything

A toy is a good way for her to “adjust” to another man. It will have her visualizing taking another man inside her. I suggest you name it after a guy she might find attractive and when you are using it say if she likes it when “he” fucks her. Its the small things that can help you go forward.

ideally we need to see if she would entertain idea of another guy fucking her. if she does not reject to outright then we may have sown seed. careful nurturing may well enable progress. then we can have a chat on basis you would understand if she needed a man whom can fulfil her needs and we would not object providing it was occasional. we can always step up frequency later if it takes off.
using a toy can assist here but we can put in odd suggestion of we think fit. e.g. not sane as real but i do want you to enjoy yourself a sit makes me happy.
we can also add to opportunity bey going dancing.clubs. swimming etc and ideally have her go on own or with friends. opportunity plus desire equals result.