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hubsub24
I’m still not sure how to start. Neither of us is comfortable in contacting a total stranger but I was concidering asking a good friend that we have both known since high school if he would be interested in helping out. I would start by asking him if he would want to help me fuck my wife in sort of a threesome. We would each take turns (tag team) of about 5 minuets each and repeat until everyone has cum. In later meetings I would provide some private time for the two of them. My main issue is:
Should I approach our friend first, to see if he is interested and if so, then present the idea to my wife. This wasy if he is not, it’s just locker room talk between friends rather than have my wife regected by our friend.
Or: Should I discuss this with my wife and then take a chance that our friend will be interested.
Should I approach our friend alone or should both my wife and I ask hin together.
Or: Should I spproach my wife alone or should both ore friend and I ask her together.
I don’t woant to fuck up our friendship or piss off my wife by involving a friend but I think that this arrangement has some merit and shuld work out for all of us.
Any comments, suggestions are welcome.
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Anonymous
First you should talk with your wife of course.
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Anonymous
Talk to your wife first every time. Mine was with a couple friends of mine and she took the lead each time. In each case, she flirted until they got together, though the one started the flirting first of his own volition. Neither were a long term arrangement, but she had a lot of fun. We started by attending an off premise “swinger” club that allowed single men. She had plenty to choose from there.
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MatureMUK
wife always comes first. if she’s ok with idea? then we can expand things but she needs to take lead. in many cases where unsure of inhibitions apply ( often) its possibly best make it some way away so if we feel it was a mistake? we can forget it. if it turns out to be a whole new exciting world.. w can develop something more local.
often a holiday week or long weekend away .sun.beach .music.bars and relaxation will set mood and ideally have her. flirt and chatted up. we can simply retire. to observe or if she’s shy wander off ensuring she is in a safe place!
common for first event not to have. hubby present. once we have established shes ok with lifestyle we can make arrangements to suit ourselves. good luck
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