Bachelorette/girls weekend ideas

Hi everyone – wife and I have been married 7 years, and all the while she has known my fantasy of her doing another guy. She’s played along in bed at times and has told me about her past when I’ve asked.

4 years ago at a bachelorette party, she randomly got a guy to lick lime juice off her bare tits. Her friends were shocked, some were appalled (and some mildly intrigued), but nothing more happened because they relocated to another bar. But she loved it and she seemed proud of being so daring. When she returned from the trip we had a lot of fun in bed imagining “what if” had they not switched bars.

Fast forward 4 years and 2 Little 0nes later, she is a shell of her former self sexually and is numb from 24/7 M0M duty. When we do hook up (1x every 1-2 weeks) I will often talk about other guys, to which she will either engage in small sexy talk about the said guy, or tell me to quiet down, but either way she goes crazy fucking my dick. I can tell she wants a hot guy lusting over her, but her confidence/sex drive is shot after becoming a M0M. Which probably explains her nonstop fitness obsession.

Cutting to the chase: She’s about to go on a bachelorette party (first one in a while) and I’d like to encourage her to flirt like she did years ago when she was more adventurous, like when she got her tits licked. It would be great for her morale (and mine LOL) if she got a phone #, danced with someone, or just flat out hooked up.

So what can I say to encourage her to open up and have fun on her weekend away from her everyday life? She knows what I’d like her to do, but are there any gestures or dares that others have floated to their wives that got them to be adventurous in these situations? Getting any kind of attention from a hot guy would be great for her spirits and it would do wonders for our marriage.

Ideas? Open to any and all. Thanks everyone!