Birthday Treat

After the weekend’s successful coupling for my wife and her new FWB (not a Bull or boyfriend or lover yet), we’ve dipped in and out of the topic when we’ve had privacy from young ears.  We’ve discussed ways of how to move things forward between the three of us and it’s quite tricky now that the ball is rolling.  Managing expectations, logistics, newly realised relationship dynamics and so on.  But we’re keeping an open mind about things.

Her FWB brought up the question of “your husband” and if I actually knew of the date that they were on.  My wife told him that yes I did and that it was something I was happy she was doing.  She omitted words like cuckold and the various associated fetishes and leanings.  She didn’t want to potentially scare him off into the sunset with it all.  Instead, leaving him to ponder this gift that she was giving him and to allow him, if he chooses to do so, do a bit of research himself.  That would give him the opportunity to understand what he was now involved with in a loose way and at a rate of understanding that he could control, and ask more targeted, direct questions the next time they meet up.  Slow and steady from our prospective.  

We discussed how the initial awkwardness between them would hopefully dissipate with each subsequent meeting, allowing them to relax more and more into their relationship.  We also talked about how in the early stages, my level of participation would have to be brought into the equation.  Not necessarily as an active participant in their sexual activities quite yet, but at least in terms communication somewhat.  Becoming connected on a social media messaging platform would be a good start.  That way, I could at least thank him for looking after my wife on their dates.  Or I could ask him what plans for the date he may have and perhaps guide him in what my wife likes and doesn’t like to eat, as an example.  But either way, it would all contribute to increasing confidence of all three of us, which can only be a good thing in my eyes. 

I asked if there had been any word from her new FWB since they parted?  You know the kind of thing.  “How are you, the morning after the night before?” or “I hope you enjoyed yourself” type of thing and yes there was.  As she was leaving, he did ask her, “Are we going to do this again?” She of course told him yes.  Why wouldn’t she?? She finds him to be really attractive, is comfortable with him, they had great sex (which she gleefully reminded me about)! The only issue is his residence.  It’s a little bit cramped.  She’s even going to book an appointment at the clinic to have the Coil refitted.  That’s how happy she is!

I’ve been going over things in my head, wondering what I can do to help things along.  To involve myself in a positive way that benefits all three of us and I have an idea that is only a little loose until I run it past my wife.  Maybe I can get some input from the members here? It’s my wife’s birthday at the end of next month.  I’m hoping that she will have met her guy again between now and then but I was thinking of booking a nice room at a hotel that I know of, on the outskirts of the town he resides in.  The hotel has an Italian restaurant.  My wife loves Italian food.  My plan would be for me to enjoy an early evening Italian meal with my wife in the restaurant and then I would return home while she continues her birthday night with her FWB in the hotel room.  She says she is going back to not drinking, so one option would be, after our meal,  she gets in the car and makes the 5-10 minute drive to pick him up, she returns.  She brings me the car keys into the restaurant while he waits in the Reception lobby.  I wait until they’ve made their way to the hotel room before I leave for home, which would be a 20 minute drive.  The following morning, I wait in the hotel breakfast lounge for my wife to collect the car keys, my wife runs him home before returning to me and some breakfast.  He could make his journeys alone by taxi even.  I just disappear and appear when I need to.  Either way, we have a choice of all being together for a brief time and introducing ourselves, or if it’s too soon for any of us, we don’t. No pressures anywhere.  But if it was decided we all meet briefly, it would give me a chance to thank him for bringing her new levels of happiness or wish them the greatest happiness on her birthday night. Basically me offering some submission to him as well as to my wife.

Another aspect of my idea is that my wife’s birthday gift would also be a gift to the both of them.  I’m giving them some nice accommodation in which they’ll both be more comfortable and I am deferring my role a sexual provider to my wife on an important day of the year.  The signal being sent to both my wife and FWB being, that I am happy for him to have access to my wife for sex and that I’m happy to facilitate it and especially on such an occasion as her birthday.  All of this would strengthen his confidence and leave him with little doubt about the pecking order of things, sexually.  My wife would get the same signals too.  My submission to them both. 

As I side note, I would request that my wife phoned me up from the room so that I could listen in for at least a short time.  That would be the icing on the cake! 

Like I said, I’d love some feedback on this from the site members here.  Thanks for reading.