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    • #14749
      SubHubAndWifey

        Our bull wants to take my wife on vacation to an exotic location (which I won’t disclose here). It’s a place known for its nightlife and topless beaches. Just the two of them while I stay home and watch our child.

        She wants to know she has my blessing but truthfully I am on the fence. We both trust this bull and have known him intimately for years, but this is a whole new step.

        Just curious what other’s thoughts on the subject might be.

      • #14751
        cucksrfun

          I have been a cuck to my wife for the past 12 years. She has gone away three times with her long term bull / boyfreind to his summer house, two times it was just for the night and the third time is was for the weekend.

          I have to say that I loved every minute of it. She felt truly free when she was away with him as opposed to her and him getting together for sex and fun for an hour or two here and there.

          She got to understand truly what it meant to cuck me and more than that she says she was more open to doing what he wanted, doing anything he wanted and she felt she was willing to do things she would have never considered.

          An example of this is when one of his old college friends came by as he happened to be in the town on vacation and saw his car and just rang the bell. He was very surprised to meet my wife and after afternoon cocktails my wifes bull instructed her to get naked and and serve them drinks in the nude. The other thing he told her to do was suck his cock in front of his friend. She did and she said she loved being told to do things like that.

          That was as far as he went but bottom line is the re=claiming of my wife when she came back each and every time was sooo powerful that we both know this is 1000% right.

          I HIGHLY recommend it but since would be going away longer I would suggest you speak two times per day and make sure her bul send pics and a vid at least once per day.

          Good Luck!! Do it!!!!

          By the way, this site is very s l o w…

        • #14753
          SubHubAndWifey

            Thank you so much for the feedback cucksrfun!
            Certainly I approve of our bull using my wife as he pleases. He has also shared her with his friends before and certainly I have no problems there. My only concern is that they will be spending a week. In addition to the sex he will be taking her to dinner, dancing, sharing adventures in a beautiful, exotic location… quite possibly falling in love. She will go with or without my blessing, but would prefer to go with. I want them to enjoy themselves and each other, but fear this may be the beginning of me getting cut out of the picture entirely.

            Perhaps what lies behind my insecurities are that when we first took up this lifestyle a couple years ago my income was was much more substantial. Over the last few years my business has been flat, causing me to budget more strictly at home, and unfortunately cut out things like exotic vacations. Meanwhile, our bull’s finances have skyrocketed. Hearing how my wife hasn’t enjoyed a good vacation is some time he offered to take her himself. If I tried to get in the way she would further resent me. So I fear she is beginning to see him as more than a bull, and as provider who can take care of her needs in ways I can’t. Sorry to get into a psychological tailspin on this, but these are the feelings I’m contending with so I do appreciate your constructive feedback!

          • #14762
            motley
            Participant

              You should all go together, at most resorts including those like hedo you can book room for 3. If kids involved are there grandparents to babysit?

            • #14769
              SubHubAndWifey

                Good suggestion motley. We have done trips as three, although not for an entire week yet. But because their plan was to go as a couple I would feel like a third wheel. I want them to be able to enjoy each other alone and feel it is my duty to give them that level of freedom and trust. Being a cuck is a complicated role sometimes and this is one of those times.

              • #14828
                Watching cuck

                  Hi subhub.you are clearly uneasy with the situation .we have an agreement if cuck asks her to stop seeing a lover if he feels she is getting to close or falling in love she will.she will only pick a lover who is older and emotionally unavailable.If you feel like a third wheel perhaps the roles are changing? Just a newbies two cents worth.

                • #14956
                  SubHubAndWifey

                    update: they leave this Sunday. with my blessing. I knew I could not say “No”. But I am excited and looking forward to it. I will be in chastity the entire week and loving it as they enjoy the pleasures of the Caribbean – and each other.

                  • #15121
                    SubHubAndWifey

                      update: today is day 4 of my wife’s vacation with her bull. i have been in chastity since Saturday evening, working from home, caring for our child, and keeping a low profile lest i encounter somebody who thinks i should be in the Caribbean right now. texts and images have been coming in, but mostly very tame: typical vacation photos on the beach, at the pool….

                      this morning her bull was kind enough to text me a photo of my wife asleep in their hotel room. so far this is my personal fave, so i will share it here….

                    • #15535
                      johndough

                        Hi,

                        We spoke in the chat room while your wife was on her trip. I enjoyed talking to you and sharing your experience. Could you possibly update this posting with a description on how her trip went and how your feelings are now that she’s back? Thanks and I hope to catch you in the chat room soon!
                        John

                      • #15539
                        SubHubAndWifey

                          Hi John and thanks for asking!

                          From all accounts her trip was an amazing success! She got her much-needed time away to a truly beautiful place, with the added benefit of lots of private time with her boyfriend. Their time together must have felt a little like the vacations we took when we were younger: two people away from home and crazy in love! “Paradise” is a word I’ve heard them both use to describe it, and it does please me to have helped make her so happy!

                          My wife and I even enjoyed one another on her return. Just the two of us which is rare, and I’m sure it was her way of telling me “Thank you”. So that was nice. I had some reservations about their vacation, but now I’m certain it was the right thing. My wife and I are in love, and my wife and her boyfriend are also in love, but I don’t think more love is a bad thing. There is room in her heart to love more than one person.

                          Another update is that business has picked up for me a little this summer and that has helped relieve some feelings of inadequacy. It’s unfortunate that so much of our self-confidence as men is tied to income, but my role in our marriage is that of provider. The role of “lover” now belongs to another man, so I will do my best to fulfill my role to the best of my abilities.

                          Again, thank you for checking in, and naturally I will be happy to answer any other questions you may have on the matter!

                          –subhub

                        • #15642
                          johndough

                            Although I don’t have any experience in this I can truly feel your pain. As men we are raised to be good providers and it’s assumed that we will take care of their every need including sex but sometimes things don’t always go according to plan. To be hit with financial problems at the same time she’s going away on a trip like this you couldn’t afford to pay for must have been painful indeed. Did you talk to her about your fear of losing her before they left? I’m thinking this is exactly why communication is so very important.

                          • #17331
                            iwannabecuck

                              We went on vacation in December together – My wife (Liz), Our Bull (Eric), and I (Phil).
                              An idea to go on vacation, has been brought by Eric (our Bull) in November.
                              Initially, He wants to go on vacation with my wife alone.
                              Being an older and more experienced in everyday’s life than our Bull, I told him that this idea is wrong.
                              If they will go along to the Caribbeans, and I will stay home, who can guarantee that nobody will see me around at the time when I went “officially” on vacation with my wife.
                              Upon returning from vacation, my wife will have tan, and I will be pale like other citizens in our state during the winter.
                              We all agreed on my concerns and start working toward the plan to go together on vacation.
                              My wife and I eliminated list of resorts, used as a vacation spots by our friends in a past, in order to not to get caught. Then we started comparing hotels amenities and prices.
                              Initially, my wife wants me to have my own room, or small room for one, adjusted to their bedroom. But being single in hotel’s room which designed to accommodates two guests, comes with heavy single supplement.
                              Counting all our expenses, we decided to share 1 room together, but this room should be a family size room and could accommodate at least a 4 persons.
                              My wife called different resorts, inquiring if they do have a room for three adults, and finally, we got what we were looking for – room with two king size beds and roll over couch, located in adjusted room space right next to the balcony door with huge Jacuzzi built in the balcony.
                              We discussed our behavior rules on vacation – I was told that my wife with her boyfriend will pretend to be a couple on a honeymoon.
                              I will be completely ignored by them.
                              I will be remaining in chastity all the time.
                              My cleanup services will no longer be needed – they will have their honeymoon for themselves, and my presents will considered as not real (ghost type of husband).
                              We bought 10 nights package and packed our belongings.
                              My wife changed my “Master” black metallic chastity lock to a plastic one in order to pass airport security, and took a picture of this lock to remember numbers written on it, which eliminated my hope of bringing couple of spare plastic locks and have a “quality” time for my own.
                              I passed airport security with my chastity device on without an issue.
                              As long my wife and her boyfriend passed the airport security, they started to kiss each other in public area and hold their hands together. They were honeymooners, fuck this.
                              Upon arriving at our hotel, we presented our passports to the front desk, and we got our room – no question asked.
                              We had junior suite room in upscale hotel’s Club area with Butler, room service included, and pillows choices.
                              Immediately, upon entering our room, Eric called the front desk and asked to bring us folding screen to isolate my view from their beds. They also moved two beds together and had a huge queen size bed for their enjoyment.
                              First day, I lost track of my wife. The hotel was huge, and preferred Club beach area was reachable by the golf carts. Anyway, I spent all day alone, staying at the beach and drinking premium alcohol from the bar.
                              At night, I went to see the show, but did not find my wife there either.
                              Around 11 pm, I quietly entered our room, and saw them both naked, seating at my couch and drinking from the room’s bar. I immediately smelled Eric’s sperm – they had sex recently.
                              When I approached my wife, she instinctively covered her breast with her arms, like she have seen an unexpected strange male inside of the room – It was shock – my wife of 25 years become shy of my presents?
                              Eric waived his hand and went to the shower, asking my wife to join him right now.
                              As soon Eric closed the shower door, my wife opened her luggage and after couple of minutes looking for something, she gave me numbers of panties in her hands. She told me that they decided to have me wear this panties every day while I’m in this room – day or night. ” I brought seven pairs here, but I will not wear any panties during this vacation. You will need to wash couple of them to match amount of days here.She also said: Being on honeymoon, I’m kind of shy to have another male in my room, then she pointed her finger to my locked penis and added – not exactly a male – half of it, and start laughing. She were drunk.
                              She also said – I prefer to see a girlfriend here, rather than a man.
                              Than, she entered shower room and I witnessed their couplings inside the shower glass door.
                              It was so erotic……
                              Next morning, I woke up earlier – I could not sleep well, listening to my wife’s moaning and Eric’s demands to my wife’s positions. I went to the beach, had an early swim and returned to our room. God, they already had morning sex and asleep in each other arms.
                              Since then, my wife and Eric had their own schedule – breakfast in the room – thanks to free room service.
                              I always reserved beach beds for them – they appeared around 10:30am every day.
                              After the lunch, they had a nap time for couple of hours every day – I was not allow to enter the room at any circumstances.
                              At night, after the show, I demonstrated them my chastity device, covered by my wife’s panties.
                              I was very frustrated – my life has changed -they did not talk to me, my wife completely ignored me and to hear their couplings every day and not to participate was unbearable. But as a cuckold I knew that this was part of the game, and I was right.
                              One day, I woke up with some pain in my balls, I felt inconvenience all day long, but in the evening, the pain become very intensive. At that time, we were at the resort’s theater, watching the show. I whispered to my wife’s ear my problem, and she immediately become very attentive to my needs -Lets take care of this problem right now”, she said. (I’d like to mention, that we did not bring any “toys” with us – why bother, if she has a real Man, inclusively for her, and toys are no longer needed, but we forgot about my needs – since I’m in chastity to drain my balls). My wife talked to Eric for a bit, then he decided to go with us, and together, we came back to our room.
                              My wife pulled down my shorts and instructed to lay down across their bed, at the end of it, then she cut the plastic lock of my chastity device. Liz and Eric were lying comfortable at the same bed, very close to me.
                              I expected that my wife will remove chastity from me and perform a hand job, as she does it at home, but she told me – “Remove it, and wank your little peepi to the end” I never heard before my wife’s comments about size of my penis, but I expected this kind of humiliations from her.
                              I start masturbating in front of them, but it took longer than expecting time for me to cum.
                              Both, my wife and Eric were watching my masturbation techniques, when Eric start fingering my wife’s pussy and I heard her moaning. Finally, I came very hard with lots of sperm on my belly. They congratulate me with this achievement, then my wife told me to use my finger to collect sperm from my belly and eat it. After that, she get me to wash my body very quick, and put chastity back on…….

                              When we got back home from vacation, we had a lot pillow talks. I asked my wife – what did they do during the after lunch nap time every year. She replied – “Just a lot of fucking”.
                              Then, she turned her face toward me and whispered: ” you know, I had so many orgasms with Eric during these 10 days that I never had with you in 25 years”
                              I replied – “This is why I’m your cuckold now”
                              She smiled and gave me deep passionate kiss.

                            • #17905
                              Anonymous

                                I spent a weekend away with my bull a few years ago after a lot of talking with cucky about it. In retrospect I think it was too early for us in our evolution to have taken this step. Whilst I enjoyed the experience I know that cucky struggled with the emotions of his wife having ‘normal’ time with another man – it was too much like a relationship instead of the cuckold dynamic.

                                Much later I was on a training course for work and had to stay in a hotel in the midlands of England for 5 nights. My bull was able to join me there for the evenings and we spent each night in bed together. However the dynamic was very different from the weekend trip. Firstly I think it was because we weren’t socialising together but rather working during the day and coming together for the night – so not unlike a usual meet in many respects. Of course the fact that we were together 5 nights in a row was unusual and I did find that by the end of the week I was not only a little sore but also the novelty had worn off a bit. I was also very tired after a few nights of late fucking and early rises. So for the last couple of nights we actually went to sleep fairly early.

                                In my everyday lifestyle I have a mixture of evening meets and ‘sleep overs’. About once a month, on a week night, I’ll spend the night with my bull at his place, leaving from there in the morning to go to work. This has a very different feel to the meets where we only have a few hours. It’s more relaxed and not so rushed to get our clothes off and into bed. I feel more valued by my bull on these dates and closer to him. Sometimes an evening date can make me feel like ‘used’. The sex is ok but there is something missing – it can be a bit mechanical.

                              • #17924
                                Anonymous

                                  The bull often takes my wife for a weekend far from the city to be just the two of them alone.

                                • #18458
                                  dave

                                    My wife has spent time alone and out of town with her lovers. It was never more than a long weekend but she always came back a more loving wife.

                                  • #18461
                                    SubHubAndWifey

                                      just as an update, they went away again this May. This time to Key West. We’re going to keep it going – a minimum of 1 week-long vacation a year. Maybe more.

                                    • #19220
                                      lilpenis

                                        Seems Kind of comon – earlier a GF did so which I took quite as an normal thing to do (going on vacations with another male). Later I got into the real Thing both already have started.
                                        So in the marriage now – wife been away twice. First time secretly second time just like a “Family thing”, but me leaving behind and at home.

                                        As she use to talk and speak about but me being refusing to do so, its now on full gas.

                                        tim

                                      • #19247
                                        Bull
                                        Participant

                                          If there is no more exciting relationship than the one between a wife and her lover shouldn’t that excitement be facilitated in any way possible?
                                          Obviously going away together is not a second date activity but when the time is right it is a wonderful way to enhance the relationship. Additionally, it can be an opportunity for the wife and her Bull to really bond.
                                          Years ago I had been seeing a wife for about 6 months. The sex was great but she was holding back. The husband was completely supportive but she was uncomfortable with the idea of him watching. She was a very hot 55 and I was 28 and it probably added to her sense of hesitation. I knew that we were only scratching the surface of what we could have together.
                                          A friend in the travel business called me with a last minute incredibly cheap deal for Hedo so I called the husband and he was ecstatic at the idea. He committed to sell the wife.
                                          We made a plan for her to receive a gift from him everyday delivered by Hedo staff. The gift would complement a gift I gave her each day. For example he sent her a body necklace and I gave her nipple jewelry to attache to it. Then she received a beautiful see through dress from him and matching earrings from me.
                                          The gifts from the husband truly demonstrated his enthusiasm and approval of our relationship. Consequently, our sex, intimacy, and pleasure intensified daily. By the time we left she was completely mine without reservation.
                                          The husband met us at the airport with a sign that said “Wifestyle Tours” She literally jumped into his arm in tears kissing him lovingly. He drove us to my place while we fucked in the back seat of his Cadillac. That was the beginning of his active involvement in the relationship and she had many orgasms while he ate cream pie.
                                          We enjoyed many more trips together and also as three. Anytime she and I went away together I always made it a priority to find a special gift for him that would always be wrapped in cum stained panties.
                                          As they say, “travel can be so broadening”

                                        • #20418
                                          Bill English

                                            When we were in our early thirties, an older friend of ours (50s) and a banker, would flirt with my wife, a cute redhead with nice small tits, any time he got the chance. She didn’t do more than making out as she did not want his wife to catch them.

                                            As a bank manager, he took frequent trips to Florida. He bugged to go with him until she finally said she would go. She flew on the same flight, but they did not sit together. When they got in to Tampa, he took her to Victoria’s Secrets at the local mall and outfitted her with lingerie. Then on to a nice clothes store and a few outfits for the 3 days.

                                            Basically, he had meetings in the daytime during which she laid out in the sun. When he got in the afternoon, they would fuck. He had her dress and in a new outfit and they went out to dinner where he would show her off to his banker friends and then to cocktail receptions to show her off more. It apparently turned him on to flaunt his young lover to the older guys.

                                            Then the last afternoon, he asked her to help him make a deal. That night, he had her dress in a nice lingerie set and have some wine. There was a knock at the door and there were 3 distinguised grey haired men in suits. They came in and she entertained them all until the next morning.

                                          • #29834
                                            Anonymous

                                              Why not ? It’s a great opportunity for them to unwind and relax away from the main relationship.As long as she comes home there isn’t anything to worry about.Its no different really than going away with the lads on a fishing trip,only difference is your not fucking your fishing buddy..Well maybe some are but that’s a different story.

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