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    • aritomsb2
        April 14, 2014 at 9:38 am
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        We haven’t done our first mmf yet but it seems that my wife and I are moving closer. (yay!). One thing I’m wondering about though, when they are together, my wife and her lover, and i’m watching should i feel free to move around the room for a better view, and should I make comments telling her/them how sexy they are together? on one hand i feel that it might be distracting, i want them concentrating on each other. on the other hand i think that it might reassure my wife, and her lover for that matter, that all is okay. I know that each situation is different and my wife and I have discussed this but with no prior experience neither of us know which would be better. Any advice or experiences would be appreciated.

        Actually while I have your ear/eye let me ask another question. Our basic plan is to have her begin with him then switch off with me in the classic wrestling tag team style in which we will double team her for a short while before completing the switch. our fantasy is to go back and forth like this with the switches coming more quickly and the double teams lasting longer as we go along until at last the three of us explode in a single giant climax! i know, the best laid plans of mice and men! any thoughts on this as a viable plan? again any advice or experiences would be appreciated.

        thanks,

        aritom

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        Keymaster
          April 14, 2014 at 10:24 am
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          aritom,

          The scenario you describe is less about cuckolding and more about a traditional threesome (if traditional can be applied to the word threesome). The difference, I think, is that cuckolding is a more passive, observational/supportive role and what you’re talking about is taking turns with her. I’m not saying it’s a bad idea, I’m just saying that it’s less of a cuckold situation. How you behave as a male involved in a threesome is also very different from how you behave as her cuckold. As her cuckold, your focus should be on her needs and their needs as a couple. As a participant, you will be quite focused on your own pleasure. Being her cuckold means sitting back and choosing to sacrifice an active role so that they may both enjoy their experience together.

          Choose your path and then we can discuss that path.

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