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cuck1978
My wife and I are actively discussing starting cuckolding in our marriage. We both are very turned on by the concept. We have been doing everything we can to educate ourselves on the topic so that we know what to expect, how to avoid pitfalls, and how to best proceed. The information in this site has been quite helpful to us.
The main roadblock however is my wife's concern about how her having sex with other men will impact our marriage bond. My question is – has anyone heard any situations in which marriages have been ruined by cuckolding? I personally have not, but we want to know if this is a real possibility. We love each other very much and hope that cuckolding me would enhance our marriage, not break it up.
Thanks for any advice.
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Luvr
Yes, I've seen/known couples to break up during or because of cuckolding, but most likely, cuckolding only hastened what was inevitable anyway.
Cuckolding amplifies whatever it is you have. If, on balance, you have a healthy, loving marriage, then cuckolding, practiced properly, will bring you even closer together and provide a more intimate relationship even as her intimacy with a lover grows. If, however, your marriage is troubled and you look to cuckolding to resolve this for you somehow, you're going to be disappointed.
When I first started in this lifestyle, I didn't give nearly as much thought to the basic health of a couples' relationship before getting involved with them as I do now. I was fortunate in that the first couples I came into contact with had a very solid relationship and their experience with cuckolding only improved it. A couple who would have been my third couple was not such a couple. They were quite dysfunctional in a few ways and though her husband did prove to be accepting of her interest in dating me, it only took meeting them a few times and talking more in depth with her to realize they were essentially two people living together rather than a couple in a loving relationship. They had seen fantasy, including her dating others, as a way of giving them something to share. Yes, that's a cornerstone of cuckolding, but when it's all you have as a couple, it's not enough.
Having said all that, I don't get that feeling from talking to you. Simply hearing of your careful exploration of this and of her concerns, I come away with the feeling that you two are well-situated to begin exploring adding the role of lover to your marriage.
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Anonymous
Very well stated Luvr! Someday i too hope to build a strong commitment in a cuckold relationship!
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cuck1978
Thank you Luvr for your thoughtful and informative response to my question. i would say you are spot-on with your assessment. i will be sure to pass along this wisdom to my wife – it should provide reassurance and comfort for her.
By the way – what you have done for the site has been incredible. This obviously has been a true labor of love for you. It is extremely well done – everything from the layout, to the content and pictures, and even the meticulous attention to details like proper organization and spelling. Keep up the good work – we all appreciate what you are doing.
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matmagic99
Our situation is similar. My wife of 27 years and I are very much in love, but have been fantasizing more and more about cuckolding. It is somewhat reassuring to read LUVR's responses to concerns. I can only imagine the joy of having him fuck my pretty wife and cuckold me, in the process, but we have a way to go, first.
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