First experience

A bit about me, I have been interested in the lifestyle for a very long time (close to 20 years) however finding a hot wife has been difficult, partly due to how I may have been trying to convince my partners at the time to participate.

I have now been in a relationship for a brief time and when I met my current partner Zoe, I was upfront in what I was looking for from a relationship. Zoe expressed that it was an idea she was open too but would rather do it together as opposed to her going out alone and would want it to evolve organically. In some of our first conversations Zoe had also told me she had quite a promiscuous past especially when drunk.

I have been very keen and in hindsight I have been rushing Zoe into things, probably a bit of an information overload as she had no idea about the lifestyle previously. Also a lot of topping from the bottom. When she finally got home last night she did mention she thought I had been a bit pushy…..I really need to work on my patience.

Our experience.

Last night Zoe went out for drinks with some friends, there were a few guys in the group whom she did not know, some of them were friends of friends (I had only met a couple in this group and only once, I didn’t know any of the others). Due to other commitments I could not attend.

There was one gentleman who would be attending that quite a while ago before I met Zoe it was suggested he go on a blind date with my then single partner….he was from the Caribbean although not your stereotypical black bull type.

On Tuesday of this week Zoe brought up the fact he would be there and showed me a picture, she also expressed that she was definitely not interested in him. Once Zoe had mentioned this gentleman I became very keen and suggested that she may hook up with him. Zoe didn’t discard the idea totally but did reaffirm that she would rather play together and was not interested in this guy or black guys in general (sorry).

Zoe had been playing along during the week teasing and such. We live a little over an hour away from each other so she had been trying her best to be assertive via long distance. Zoe is naturally somewhat submissive and enjoys being degraded and feeling used during sex.

So with distance and Zoe’s natural instinct to contend with she worked hard to take up the challenge of being a Woman in control, she had me wear a pair of her dirty panties during the day on Friday (I had these at home in a ziplock sealed bag they were put in the bag on Monday immediately after she had gushed all over them and when i pulled them out they were still drenched) and asked me to abide to a strict no masturbation rule.

Earlier in the week we had discussed what she was going to wear. On Friday afternoon when she got home she texted me and let me know that she had changed her mind and my suggestion on clothing choice was cast aside. She chose to wear a short sexy dress and black strapy heals, I asked if she had anything underneath and all I got was “Maybe….Maybe not”. Soon after she left her home this was at 6:00pm and my further texts were not replied to.

By this stage I was full of sexual excitement from the anticipation of what may happen.

Over the course of the night I received a few texts from her telling me she loved me and that she was having a good time with friends.

It had been organised that I would make my way down to her place and wait for her to call to be picked up or get home, I arrived at her place at around 9:40pm. I shot off a text letting her know I had arrived, she replied almost immediately with a text saying “Want to join me?” I said I can and she gave me her location. I drove the 25 minutes into the city .

I arrived at the bar she sent me to, went in ordered a drink and looked around Zoe and her friends they were no where to be seen. I texted asking where she was and waited while i finished my drink feeling a little awkward and out of place. After I finished my drink I headed back to the car still no response or sign of Zoe and friends….

28 minutes later I receive an incoherent text that said,
“I’m at the henn rer joe iou 219 heajivwb”. I replied with “??” and a follow up of “I have no idea where you are?” after about 10 minutes I phoned she didn’t answer the first time so I tried again. Zoe answered on the second call and said she was alone in a bathroom of a bar and had no idea which bar but once out of the bathroom she would find out the name and text me the address, she also sounded pretty drunk.

Fast forward an hour and a half later and several text with no response. I have a mixture of excitement but also a bit worried as I have no idea where she is and she is not responding to texts. 30 minutes later I text her ” Are you being fucked right now?” nothing changes and I get no response, I decide to call and her phone is off…..My head is spinning a bit.

10 minutes later my phone lights up it is her, I answer but it is her girlfriend (the one who wanted to arrange the blind date with the black guy). The friend asks where I am and I tell her soon after there are 4 people including Zoe at my car, they ask how long I have been there and apologise and say it was a mix up and Zoe said she thought I was still at her place…..
They then say that I will be driving them home. Three Girls and One guy (He is the Partner of one of the girls).

They are all buzzed and ask if I can go through a drive through burger place to get them food which I do…….during the drive they are all chatting, the conversation is pretty normal except at one stage the friend makes a comment about not wearing panties, some time after she makes a remark about black cock…
Not too long after this Zoe who is in the passenger seat opens her purse and pulls her panties out just a little to show me that she is no longer wearing any, I am not sure if anyone else noticed, I think Zoe thought she was being discrete but she was very drunk. The rest of the drive is pretty normal except my girl is next to me and all I can think about is if she has “enjoyed” herself. I drop the friends home.

Almost as soon as it is just Zoe and I in the car I ask her about her night…..she said she had fun and was very drunk so it is all a bit hazy, she said she had flirted quite a bit with Joe the Caribbean friend and that he had put his hand up her dress as they were walking upstairs and grabbed her sexy ass. I asked if that was all and she said yes but she had told me that during the night she had let her girlfriend know that she wanted black cock. As we continued the drive home she told me she had not slept with Joe and if she had of she thought it would feel like I had pressured her into doing it.

We get back to her place and we are into each other, I kiss her and think maybe she tastes a bit like cock but I cant be sure……she is somewhat reluctant to let me eat her out telling me I haven’t earned the right to eat her pussy as during the week I had touched my cock….
With some persuasion I am soon eagerly licking her out, she is enjoying it but maybe because of the alcohol not as much as she usually would.
My cock is hard and I move up to slide inside her she stops me and tells me to get her big dildo (much thicker and larger than me) and to fuck her with it first which I gladly do.
I lick her clit while I fuck her with the dildo and she eventually cums, she then lets me enter her from behind. As she has just been opened by a much larger dildo there is minimum friction for me…just how i like it…I am fucking her and tell her I am about to cum as i say this she reaches between her legs and starts to fondle my balls, then out of nowhere she squeezes hard her nails digging into my scrotum and one of my balls being squashed in her palm….this is something we have never discussed.
Needless to say I don’t cum and soon after she has had enough and wants to go to sleep. We talk briefly and I press her for more details of her night but she says that she cant remember much as at about 8:00pm they were drinking shots and its all a blur after that. I do manage to find out that she too off her panties roughly 7:00pm in the bathroom.
Before falling asleep Zoe also mentioned that she had felt pressured and that I was trying to rush things too fast and she felt a bit less of me as a man because I am sending her out to be with other men, she said she felt a little like I was trying to almost pimp her out, which is not my intention.
We chatted a little bit more, I did ask if she really wanted to be with a black guy and she said no. She was just saying it to excite me, she also denied her earlier comment of telling her girlfriend she wanted black cock.
The only thing of note that happened before she fell asleep is she needed to piss, so she pissed in a glass and told me to drink it. (yeah i am a sick fuck)

The next morning I have to leave by 9:30, so I wake her up at about 7:00am by going down on her she stirs and wakes up, I eat her out for a bit more then go and get her a glass of water and make her a coffee.

We sit in bed and chat I apologise for making her feel pressured and ask why she didnt say something earlier we have a great chat about relationship reaffirming our love for each other and I let her know I will practice patience.

The conversation then moves to the previous night…where she tells me that there was another guy called Brock who she had not mentioned at all the previous night.

Zoe tells me that when she first got into the city they were drinking at a bar where she was introduced to Brock. He eyed her up and down and they began chatting and seemed to get on well. It turns out Brock is married.
After sometime the group decided to go to a Vietnamese restaurant for something to eat. As it happened Brock was sitting at the head of the table and Zoe was sitting on one of the sides next to him. She tells me that during the meal Brock’s leg brushed up against hers and she didn’t pull away. It became a bit of a thing and through out the meal they were rubbing up against each other under the table. I asked if any hands went under the table she said she really wanted to but there was too many people there so no.

I then ask so did anything else happen with him and she says no as he was married and she wouldn’t do that to another woman. A short time later she said maybe she did fuck him in the toilets but can’t remember as she was so drunk and that is all she was willing to say.

I am hard again and really want to cum I ask Zoe to straddle my face which she does after a while I ask to be inside her she dosen’t respond but eventually gives me a blow job and I cum in her mouth, which she snowballs me with.

I ask if she could find out from her friend if she fucked Brock but she said she would rather not know and would not be pursuing it, she also said that Joe the black guy had given her his business card. I asked her all fantasy’s of mine aside if she would like a black cock and she says maybe and which was certainly a change in what she was saying earlier in the week.

All in all in was a great experience for me, Zoe said she had fun but just wants less pressure from me, which I need to respect big time as I dont want to fuck this up…..also I would love to find out if she did anything with Brock but speaking to her this evening on the phone she said I guess we will never know.

I hope you enjoy reading about our experience, I would love some advice on trying to help me slow down and let her go at her own pace as I really think she is a keeper.