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    • #38804

      Hello so i live in middle east where manythings are taboo which is sexy

      I met my girlfriend like 4 years ago ,and i already liked novelty and had bisexual encouters and she was bisexual too.

      We started talking about cuckolding after she caught my chat with a dominatrix which i had an encouter with.after that i explained to her that i like to do weird stuff and i seek novelty and i was embarresed to tell her.

      From there we started exploring our sexuality (after forgiving me ) and i promised all my fetishes will be talked to her 😂.

      So she started dominating me and ci confessed to her that id like to try being a cuckold while im on chastity.

      First experience (no sex):was the best ,she went and had a drink with a friend she used to have sex with after the drink ,they went in the car and she called me and hid her phone while she was kissing him and playing with her pussy i imediatly cummed like crazy it was like a drug,wow,we met the next day and had awesome sex.

      2nd experience first time with sex :she talked to me about her ex like 7 years ago and told me he is talking to her and told me he is married and wont be a pain in the ass just fuck buddies ,i liked the idea especially that she told me his cock didnt use to fit in her.

      Aftet like 1 year from the first experience we did this 2nd experience ,and i was expecting her to call ,she told me before leaving that it may be hard to call since she suggested sex while i watch and he didnt like the idea and was against it since hes married,soo she told me when she arrived and no call ,no voice note no videos no nothing ,but texted me telling me shes enjoying it too much ,and is in pain .

      I replied that im not ok eith her not calling and im not happy ,she left and came and apologized.

      I dunno i feel weird and uncomfortable of what happened especially that i have trust issues simce i beleive no person is monogomus and people cant be satisfied with one partner.

      Btw this is all while it is my first day in chastity and she didnt let me cum which is hot.

      She came and told me that she had an amazing sex and that her pussy is swollen and i cant fuck her cuz shes in pain and told me he made her cum 4 times and teased her,and that she was soo in the moment and fount it hard to record or call.

      My question :would you leave your girlfriend and lifestyle if trust is kinda broken,how do u deal with emotions ?do u loose self respect ?

      Sorry for the long article im kinda new snd this is the only place i have read stuff and can open up.

      Thank you ❤️

    • #38813

      Hello there, I do not speak from experience since I have not had my first encounter as a stag yet, but from what I can see there is no need to leave your girl and distrust is a part of a feeling you will experience in cuckolding. I personally do not like being in chastity but do get extremely exited thinking about my wife with other men. In our book trust is the open line of communication, we both know is going to happen it’s just a matter of finding the guy and the opportunity, three small children do not allow for much. From the other forums I have read the strongly advise to have encounters with strangers and non past known people or friend. This will help avoid some of the issues such as a lack of trust, reignite old feelings for one another and the list goes on. If your girl got too into it and didn’t call or video you, well she did what she was supposed to, have a great time. All you had to was to wait for her to bring you home some good cream pie for dessert. If pussy was hurting Bc of too much beating, encourage a bit less beating so you can have some fun to. Talk your frustrations out, after all she is just following you into the door you opened. Lack of trust is a sign of insecurity, and after all she came back and told you what happened. There is not a perfect manuscript for this, it’s all a trial and error. If you didn’t like something, you need to speak up, and move from there. I personally would not recommend for her to be with a married man, that could bring devastating consequences to all of you. There are plenty of single bulls on the street, look for one of those. Next time around, dress her, make her look the hottest, buy her new panties, encourage her to have a blast and to bring you some dirty pie. Read some of the posts on the forums and you see that your experience is not too far out from the others. Keep us in the loop

      • #38817

        Hey thank you soo much man ,much needed advice ❤️

      • #38818

        I really treated her well the next day ,the same day i didnt sleep lmao ,but working my emotions out.

        Shes still in pain from his cock ,our relationship is better to be honest ,what happened is really sexy

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