Same here. Wife had a bf for a year. He would come to our home about once a month. Very intense before, during and afterwards. Eventually she ended it saying she just wasn’t into it as much anymore. She knows I want it to happen with him or a new guy but she says I completely satisfy her and she isn’t interested in another man. We still talk about past experiences and make up stories but it just isn’t as satisfying for me.
I can/t complain much because I have hall pass and am the Bull for 2 other couples. Miss being sub though.