Hotwife Exploration; Seeking an Erotic Massage as Foreplay…

Hello,
I am new and looking to explore hotwifing. I have initiated this fantasy so my husband said it would be “interesting” and surprising if I made it happen all on my own. We live in Laguna Hills, CA and must be VERY DISCREET!

I am seeking an attractive, tall, skilled masseur who has real skills and does not have to rush himself. My husband works crazy hours so he may or may not be hone to watch. Here’s the hiccup for so many men who call themselves “massage experts or whatever.” You must possess YOUR OWN massage table. That always makes it easier for both of us to be comfortable. I’ve only done this a few times but it was very relaxing and since the massage and little side touches and kisses are perfect foreplay. That’s why I ask that you don’t rush to get to your own happy ending!

It does not have to find its way to any kind of physical play unless you are clear about what you like and want, you take charge (I’m a female so I like confidence and control), and we communicate with each other. I am open to kissing, touching, enjoying your hands and fingers gliding over my skin you’ve oiled. i like to have my shoulders massaged while you stand in front of me lying on your table and you’ve surprised me by quietly undressing and your above average clean and shaved or closely man-scaped cock is nice and hard so I can put my mouth on it for you. When you have finished with your massage magic I’m open to mutual oral and/or whatever you initiate and guide to show me you enjoy GIVING pleasure as much as receiving it WITHOUT RUSHING like a high school boy who does not understand foreplay and relaxation before going for the happy ending.

Getting to know you dictates a lot. I am absolutely NOT interested in Black guys so please don’t waste your or my time. I make no apology for my preference. My primary interest is a nicely HUNG White guy. You must be a nice, polite, good conversationalist who is honest and trustworthy. If you decide you want to lead me down the erotic path of fucking, condoms are definitely a NEGOTIABLE issue. I hate them! That’s why honesty is so important. No need to try everything you read in the Kama Sutra, just have fun and enjoy the sensations you get back as you give me mine. I’m particularly fond of the Missionary Position and if it doesn’t interfere with your rhythm and thought process, I enjoy kissing you as you let yourself cum inside me and go as long as it feels great for you! I love getting lost in the experience. Even if my husband was sitting right there, I never acknowledge or rarely even hear him because I am enjoying sex with the man in front of me or inside me. Keep your eyes open so I can look into them and see your interest and pleasure.

For me, this is my idea and fantasy of being a Hotwife. Over a period of time I was the one who developed that trust between us for his approval, otherwise I would NEVER do it. I would never sneak and cheat, EVER! Being with an attractive man who knows how to kiss a girl without crushing her mouth is critical. He has confidence in his physical attributes without self-consciousness. He knows how to give a massage that is more than just rubbing hands over woman’s skin. and where good firm pressure can increase desire. Please be into giving oral and work your tongue and fingers together to show you enjoy doing it and are not going to just rush through it because you feel you have to do it. Like most women I never complain about having orgasms – whether from your face and mouth, your fingers, toys or your cock. I’ll do my best to make sure your cock gets all the attention you want. I love to suck and I’ve never wasted it with a spit or done the last second hand-job finish! I’ve never seen a hand-job or a jack-off facial cumshot that thrilled me, so please do not ask, or do it. I swallow it if you cum in my mouth or you cum inside me and I get to feel your orgasm and watching your face knowing I helped give you that pleasure makes me want to scream because you deserve it!

Please remember this is not some masturbation fantasy written by a man whose real wife would snap and leave him if he ever brought it up! God-forbid him trying to introduce it into their relationship after she is obviously opposed to it and infuriated because she is made to feel she is not enough to fulfill their sex life! My husband was more curious and intrigued when I lightly began the discussions hypothetical curiosity and he was open to me sharing my fantasies without freaking out or worrying I wanted to open our marriage and begin to diminish his place in it. I told him I love the massage and seduction fantasy rather than “dating” someone which could have embarrassed him if someone saw me. This was a lot to write and if you actually spent the time to read it you are in just about 7% of literate Americans with focus and comprehension that women find very attractive. Thank you for doing that and please pardon any typos.

We need to find a way to exchange Email addresses because posting them is against the rules. If you feel you meet all my primary expectations, are geographically desirable (I only play at our place for safety) and can have conversations that involve telling the truth at all times; you are confident in yourself and your skills, desires, and POSSESS A PORTABLE MASSAGE TABLE YOU CAN BRING OVER HERE, i am open to talking and exchanging thoughts and photos. If your fetish is fucking another man’s wife while he watches helplessly because any interference would anger the ol’ lady and she’d turn her frustration and anger on him, I am not the Hotwife for you. My husband has watched but I focus only upon the man on top of me! The first kiss tells a lot but it helps me to block out everything around me and you and I become powerfully exciting lovers until we both are done and I feel you have felt the pleasure sex is designed to give you and I know you have been rewarded for giving me that massage, great oral sex and filled me with your cock like you needed! Giving it to you from my body will likely never be forgotten long after Hotwifing has faded away. Women deserve the taboo thrill of a great seductive massage from a man other than her husband and all the foreplay you want to give. It is HOT because my husband has given me his approval and I choose the very few I’ve done it with to fulfill my fantasies. You’ll be exchanging thoughts with me every time unless I tell you otherwise, so if you want to know about his thoughts and feelings I will ask him or we will pick a time you can talk with him directly by phone, Email or Text message. Your choice. You’ll be my choice! Goodnight for now.

I hope I hear from some attractive, NORMAL, sex-positive, exceptionally well endowed and it feels powerful just to hold and suck it. If I can articulate my thoughts in an open cogent manner, you can too! I will NOT respond to one-liners, an inability to express your thoughts without excessive profanity or you live an unreasonable distance away from me in Orange County, California. I do not do pointless computer fantasy play. I hope you respect and understand my expectations. I will be doing my best to extend you the respectfully erotic thing you want and deserve too!
Sincerely,
Barbara JoD