Hotwife i the Ruff, what to do next

There could be several reasons for her now cold feet:

• she may have less self-confidence in her appeal to other men
• she may have less self-confidence in younger men finding her appealing
• she may believe this is something you offer to have justification to enjoy other women

Not having had any real success can also put a damper on her interest. Instead of relying on online methods to meet guys, why not consider the tried and true method of boy meets girl? Socialize her. Unless she’s a shut-in, she’s around men every day making every day an opportunity to dress and behave the role of hotwife. The best way to attract a younger male is to give him reason to notice and pursue her. From there, it’s just nature taking its course.