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bullinprogressParticipantApril 8, 2025 at 8:26 amPost count: 7To make a long story short. I’ve been having an affair with a married woman who rarely has sex with her husband. And when they do. It’s very vanilla. The sex we have together is very not vanilla. We’ve done more things together than any woman I’ve been with. Including bondage, wax play, spanking, flogging, facials, anal play etc. I’ve also taken many videos and pictures.
About a month ago her husband found the videos that were transferred to the iPad. He woke her up extremely hurt and upset. He asked her if we were having sex and said don’t lie. I’ve seen everything. She admitted to it. He then told her to go into the closet and put lingerie on. After she came out he said, now give me a blow job like you gave him. She did and he came very quickly. Only a few minutes later he was hard again and they had sex.
Since this has happened he says he doesn’t want her to speak to me other than about work related things. But then he asks a-lot of questions. Like. “You make me wear a condom and he doesn’t? Why?” Her response was, “well he can control when he cums. You can’t. So I don’t trust that you will be able to pull out in time.” He then said “so he just pulls out and blows a load on your stomach? Yes”. And he wasn’t upset when asking. Then one day out of the blue he kind of chuckled and said. Wow. You did some kinky shit! Everytime he asks questions he wants a handjob or asks if he can jack off in front of her. She hasn’t had sex with him since the night he found out because she says she’s not ready to get there yet. He has also admitted to being turned on by seeing the videos. He says he’s turned on because she’s doing things he never thought she would do.
She said the reason we were doing that was because we were trying to get her more comfortable doing intimate things with him. Which he actually thanked her for. She tells him he can learn how to be better in bed if he talks to me and he says he’s not ready to talk to me yet. I told her to say to him. You’re turned on when you saw those videos. Would you like me to take care of you while I tell you about my experiences with him. Is there any other suggestions she could do to help bring this out of him? -
Cathy & JerryParticipantApril 8, 2025 at 3:58 pmPost count: 214
He should also be looking at the photos and videos of you two as she’s giving him a handjob, or better yet, he should be stroking himself as she’s showing him those photos and videos and telling him all about what was happening at the time they were put on camera. Eventually she shouldn’t be touching him sexually and he shouldn’t be touching her sexually. He should be fully aware at this point that you are the only one taking care of her needs and that he’ll be allowed to masturbate while she allows him to either see the evidence (her leaking gaping pussy) and/or photos and videos. He’ll feel that he’s being involved while actually being blocked from involvement, as it should be.
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bullinprogressParticipantApril 8, 2025 at 6:07 pmPost count: 7
That’s a great idea. He became obsessed with the videos and pics so she made him delete everything. She told him she watched me delete everything too. He’s still upset about everything. But during an argument she said you are turned on by what you saw. His answer was that she was doing things he didn’t think she would do.
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bullinprogressParticipantApril 8, 2025 at 6:13 pmPost count: 7
He’s still in freak out mode. His biggest fear is her leaving him. He told her today he doesn’t want us to be in contact at all. She told him that’s not an option. We work together and we will talk. At the same time he gets off on what we’ve done together.
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cuckaliciousParticipantApril 9, 2025 at 7:24 pmPost count: 1
Has she stopped seeing you sexually since his discovery?
Seems to me there needs to be more videos and pictures made, as at some point, when he does accept he is a cuckold, he will deeply regret the deletion of those original videos and wish he could watch them again.
Cuckolding is a process of acceptance of who we are and can be a difficult and long process.
Her actions can encourage acceptance, such as:
Not allowing him sexual gratification until after a discussion about you and her, whether that be him processing things or outright discussion of what you did together and why she prefers it to hubby. She will need to gauge what he’s ready for, but always push him accept more when possible.
She should let him catch her masturbating, and naturally it will be to the thought of what you did and/or what she still wants to do, and she should freely admit to it. She should freely say she misses the sex with you.
She should be frank with him about her lack of satisfaction with hubby’s sexual performance compared to you.
Get him to admit as often as possible how often he thinks of you both together, and tell him it turns her on when he thinks like that. Initially rewarding that behavior may be necessary to get him over the shock/dismay, and into acceptance, then she can pull back.
Just my two cents. Enjoy!
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bullinprogressParticipantApril 10, 2025 at 5:21 amPost count: 7
So we’re doing some of this. Before her he never even kissed a girl. Up until he caught us I don’t think he even knew what a clit was. So he’s been “researching”. She told him getting information off of the internet isn’t going to help. She said if she wants to learn he should ask me. She told him the reason we started was so she can be more comfortable doing different things and that we had planned to bring him in so he could learn how to do different things. He believed that. When she says he should ask me stuff he just says he’s not ready for that yet. So when he’s all horned up he asks questions of what we did. And the. He asks if she minds if he jerks off. And no. She doesn’t do anything with him unless they are talking about us. But then he goes into another phase like yesterday where he does t want her to have any contact with me at all. And she finds him going through her phone looking for messages between us.
So I even had her text him a message saying I like it when you get turned on when we talk about certain things. His response came from chatGPT. It was something generic bullshit response acknowledging he appreciates that she like the communication and looks forward to talking more. Or some bullshit like that. -
bullinprogressParticipantApril 10, 2025 at 6:01 amPost count: 7
I’d be a little weary about telling him he’s not able to satisfy her sexually at this point. He’s still pretty fragile.
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bullinprogressParticipantApril 10, 2025 at 6:14 amPost count: 7
Before he found out about us she would comment to him he needed someone to teach him things. He would respond with. I know, im sorry I’m not manly. And then I heard how aroused he got when he saw the videos. When he asks questions about what we did he’s not upset at all. And then he qets aroused. And let me tell you. The videos he saw. He saw one where I’m cumming on her face. He saw my cock as I slid it in her. He saw bondage videos and blowjob videos. He even mentioned to her how much larger I am than him and asked it felt different. But then like I said. He flips the next day and doesn’t want her to have any contact with me.
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Cathy & JerryParticipantApril 11, 2025 at 9:45 amPost count: 214
The first thing he has to do while in “cuckold learning mode” is STOP MASTURBATING!!! That always causes the newbie cuckold to lose his horniness for what’s happening and flip the switch from loving it and accepting it, to fearing that he’s pushing her away and that an Alpha male will take her away from him. My questions for the moment is – do they love each other? Do they trust each other? Do they spend time together as a couple (sex not included)? Have they been married for very long? What are their ages? All of this truly matters. They must be well bonded to each other, love each other very much and have been together for a long enough period to really know and trust each other. Age can come into play here as well. In our 17 years in cuckolding we’ve found that it’s usually couples over the age of 40 who have been together a long time, are the most successful in the cuckold lifestyle. When he’s horned up and thinks about his wife giving herself to a much better lover who leaves his sperm inside of her, he’s loving it. But the moment he masturbates and ejaculates, the “horniness” is gone and reversed. So maybe she might think about putting him in a chastity cage.
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bullinprogressParticipantApril 11, 2025 at 1:13 pmPost count: 7
They’re both 41. Been together since early 20’s. I guess as far as trust, he probably lost that since he found the videos of her with me. She trusts him not to cheat because he’s never been with another woman. But she lost trust in him in a sense because there have been a few times where he’s taken advantage of her sexually when she was drunk. And one time just forced himself upon her. The other trust issue with her is his family treats her like shit and he doesn’t stick up for her to them. But then they also treat him like shit and he just takes it. He doesn’t stick whatever they say. And if I’m being honest, he does whatever she says. I understand the masterbation thing. Tonight I told her to bring up how he was turned on by the videos. If he admits to it again to start Jacking him off and try to get him to be more specific as to what turned him on. He’s still at a point where he doesn’t want her to talk to me. But he seems to be easing up on that today and yesterday. Like he’s not as insistent. So idk how calling me a better lover would go over right now. lol. Is that how you want to be talked to? What would be some signs that he would like that?
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