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N3w2AllTh15
Hello world,
I couldn’t figure out where to introduce myself. So decided to just post here. I’m David. I’m from California. Not the biggest fan of this place, but sticking around because this is where my kids are. I’m divorced, but still on good terms with the ex-wife, and very happy to continue being a part of my kids’ lives.
I’m just looking around the interwebs for communities that I could join, to better understand the thoughts in my head. Hope this turns out to be such a community.
looking forward to getting to know people here. Feel free to reach out, and ask any questions you’d like.
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Rigel Orion
Welcome to this page, there ara a lot of info that you can read and get an understanding of what we do in this kink.
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N3w2AllTh15
Thanks for the welcome. I’ve been reading up on the lifestyle A LOT recently. That’s how I found this site.
I ended up divorcing my wife a little over 2 years ago; over the fact that she had a number of affairs while we were married. While she says she’s still in love with me and wants us to be together, I just couldn’t handle all her extramarital “fun”.
However recently, I’ve been exposed more and more to female promiscuity, and instead of being offended by it, I’m finding it extremely arousing. I’ve recently found out that 2 of my close friends are in “open” relationships themselves. My sister’s cheating on her husband, and I’ve managed to hook up with a number of really slutty and promiscuous women since the divorce. In one instance, the lady set up a hook up with another man, whilst on a dinner date with me. All she said that while she won’t sleep with me on the 1st date, she did have needs and so she’d arranged with a FWB to come take care of her. Part of me was furious and humiliated because I was being used by her for a meal. But part of me was extremely aroused. I’ve gotten to the point where I happily watch the kids while my ex-wife goes out to meet her lovers.
I’m even considering getting back together with her.
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CRCouple
Sound like your beginning to understand and headed in the direction for reconciliation an a happy cuckold life. Best Wishes.
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N3w2AllTh15
Yes. That does seem to tbe the case.
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Cathy & Jerry
Being a cuckold is fantastic for men who understand that their wife/gf needs more than they you can give. They need a man at home that they can trust to keep things going, provide the income that’s needed to have a happy home life. But they also need more than that, they need that animalistic feeling they get from other men who only want them for sex, intimacy on a level that the husband is usually not able to give. Many women fall in love with their lover but still love their husband, just not in the same way. My wife is madly in love with her lover as he is with her but she’s also in love with me, just not as a lover. So he makes love to her, gives her the passion, the sensations and intense orgasms she needs while I provide everything else she needs to be happy and healthy. It’s a win win for all three of us. Sure I don’t have intercourse with her anymore but that’s ok, I understand and accept that nature didn’t have that plan for me and I won’t be that guy who can’t let it go. I know men who will attack other men who even look at their wife/gf but won’t give her what she needs and desires, leaving her feeling empty, depressed and unloved. Sure many cuckold couples do it just for the excitement but for men and women like me and my wife it’s the most wonderful lifestyle EVER! If you decide to get back together with her you need to let her know why you wish to be with her again and talk about how being in the cuckold lifestyle will work for you both and put together a list of rules you both agree on. There’s so much for the two of you to work on, just take it slow and always talk to each other, be honest and don’t hide anything from each other including feelings. Once you’re into the lifestyle for awhile you’ll truly enjoy knowing that she’s in the arms of another man, being made love to in ways that you can only imagine. Good luck
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CRCouple
Agree. Happy cuckold for about 50 years.
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motley
Your profile says: “Age Range 31-40” ????? Assume you are an older couple like us?
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Alex
When a woman says she won’t sleep with you on the first date ask her, “How about the last date?”
Hotwives are not abusive and take advantage of their husbands. They are not in it to hurt anyone. So get that out of your head right now. Any woman who is into that is toxic. run as fast as you can from her.
It is a team effort where you both enjoy her sexuality. Compersion is the term often used. The cuckold lifestyle can go in many directions depending on the couple, but no one should feel hurt, used, and abused. If it comes to that then it is not cuckolding. It is abuse.
I think you need to emotionally process the breakup before you make any decisions. when emotions are high common sense is low.
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N3w2AllTh15
Rigel Orion
CRCouple
Cathy & Jerry
motley
Alex
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