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s.i.c.
My wife and I recently had a sexual encounter, I say that as I was not able to have sex with her because I went limp. I got her off via oral service, but after she came, she was pissed. She asked why the last several times (all three times this year) I got her off, but I was unable to. She wanted to know why I wasn't attracted to her (she is hot, 5'6″ 118lb 36C) or what my problem was. I replied that I know I have a small dick, and I know it dose not feel good when I fuck. That was a hard thing to say, for the first time, even if it was blatantly true. She replied that it was not true, that I wasn't “freakishly small” but clearly with that statement she must feel otherwise. Is it a good idea to reinforce this with her, and she has made suttle comments over the years, and slowly get het to understand she deserves more. I can't just come out and bring up the topic of cuckolding, as she would think I really just wanted to have sex with someone else, so I have to get her to bring it up (and she did in the past, but I was way to insecure to alow it then).
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Luvr
I'd like to ask if there are other reasons perhaps instead of your size or in addition to your size that left you unable to even remain stiff for her since most cuckolds I know with a wife that hot desire desperately to be inside her, small or not, and easily stiffen for her despite knowing it's not enough for her.
Have you been jerking off frequently imagining you're already her cuckold?
What sort of subtle comments has she made?
How long married?
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s.i.c.
We have been married 15 years, and I think you nailed it, I have been jerking off allot, and always about her with other men. And as I think about it, the times we had “sex”, I had even jerked off that day, once several times, so I guess it's no wonder I can't keep it hard.
As far as comments, they are not mean, but always said in a gentle, teasing way. One time I had fallen asleep on the couch and woke with a full hard on, and after I stood up, she started giggling, saying “you look like Ron Burgundy in Anchorman, with your little, I mean big weenie” or when watching a video of me as a toddler naked, she squealed “wow, not much has changed!!” again not in a mean way with a smile. One time when sucking my dick I tried to shove it down her throat and she spit me out laughing asking ” were you trying to choke me?” when it was clear I didn't really enter her throat, but had given my all. Or when seeing me naked, like after exiting the shower, she always giggles, saying some thing like “I see you”. I know she isn't happy with the size, but goes out of her way to pretend it is not an issue, as I do belive she loves me, and does not want to hurt my feelings, even if she is not getting the sexual satisfaction she deserves.
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Beth Stuart
If you're jerking off so often that you cannot remain erect, you might consider wearing a lockable chastity device with your wife as the keyholder. This could be beneficial irrespective of whether she cuckolds you.
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s.i.c.
That's not a bad idea Beth, and I would be fine with that, it just may be hard to get my wife to get past the “weird” factor. It would only be to her benefit, so maybe I can slowly try to get her interested in it. It most likely will take a while, but it may be worth the effort and I agree with you, it would be beneficial either way, but if she will lock me up I'm sure she would also be ready to fuck other guys, so I guess it would only be a win-win if I can get her to see the light.
Thanks Beth.
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kissherass
You might want to come out and confess to her your inability to control your masterbation habit. Its alot easier than trying to explain to her how you would prefer her to be with other men and a possible start to a wonderful conversation how you both really feel and your inner sexual fantasies.
You might find her able to accept that and then be more open to discuss solutions. One being your locked up and therefore better prepared to satisfy her, two, you really prefer masterbation and how can you still address her needs. I found my wife wasn't shocked at all when I've finally admitted . She knew already actually and I found out she wasn't the prude she made herself out to be. Still we can't have the conversations I've hoped for but its out in the open now.
I come out to her about many of my preversions not all. I've found it has stregthened her and has made her more of the woman I've hoped her to be. Realized she is still an attractive, confident woman worthy of a great sex life and attention from men has really taken her out of her slump. She dresses better, holds her head high, demostrates her natural dominant personality.
Good luck.
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s.i.c.
Luvr
Beth Stuart
kissherass
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