Marriages Saved/Improved by Hotwife/Cuckold Lifestyle

Not yet, new into this lifestyle, progress is slow, but were taking it one day at a time.

No, other than I am part of the family… invited over for the holidays, BBQ, hang with kids, stay the night, etc..

We have been doing this for several years now and all seems good.

There are negatives, as with everything. Some of my wife’s bf’s have brought unwanted drama, or became too possessive or demanding. As the cuckold hubby, it can be really interesting to see your wife get angry with her bf.

The good part is when my wife is having frequent, pleasurable sex with her bf. During those times, she is a very happy woman.

It has definitely changed our relationship in many good ways. A husband and wife should be best friends. Being a cuckold husband takes that friendship to a much higher level.

If I don’t get to watch, she knows I enjoy hearing the graphic details of her experiences with her men. She enjoys talking about it, so I am the ear that listens. When a relationship with a bf goes bad, I’m not just that ear, but the shoulder she cries on.

It has brought us closer and I have learned so much more about her. Sexual things that she likes, that I never knew. Things about men that turn her on and turn her off. Most husbands in a traditional relationship will never know those things about his wife.

To boil it down, I feel like I have become more of my wife’s best friend.

Don, I feel exactly the same. More like best friends with my wife than husband and wife.

let us know how it goes.

I’m the cuckold part of this duo. My wife Cathy had been married since a year after we were out of high school. She had been cheating on me close to 15 years ago (from today’s date) and I discovered it by accident (which I explain in other posts), and yes at that time we had a teen daughter at home during the start of my wife’s many month extracurricular activities; but she had moved out to college by the time I discovered the truth. I confronted her after about 2 weeks of continually seeing this “evidence” over and over again. She started crying when she knew the “jig was up” and told me that she wouldn’t do it ever again but I stopped her and explained that I totally understood why she was doing it and that I knew I wasn’t a good lover at all, then asked her to continue seeing him. She was shocked but she stopped crying and listened more. I explained that I was upset “at first” but found that my little cock got harder than I ever remember it getting every time I pictured him lying between her legs and his large cock (anybody’s is larger than mine lol) buried deep in her tight, hot pussy (tight because I just barely got it open) and leaving huge loads of cum inside of her. I also asked her to let him know that I was ok with him being her boyfriend and to please bring him over and use our bedroom and I’d stay in the guest room (our daughter’s old room) during their “mating nights” lol. She was very excited and even called him with me there telling him about it and even said “I love you” to him then realized that I was still there and had a shocked “sorry” look on her face. When she hung up she was going to say something about it but I stopped her and told her that it’s ok, if she loves him then that means he’s a good guy and is giving her the amazing sex she has craved for so very long. She hugged me and kissed me and told me to never worry, she’d never want to leave me for him or any other man, but she admitted that she was having the feeling that she should leave me because she always felt so guilty on her drives home from her love making sessions; but now she’s happy that she doesn’t have to do that. Since that day I’ve been a very happy cuckold and our marriage has been better than it ever was, even when we were married. About 8 years ago Cathy told me that she really didn’t enjoy intercourse with me but was always afraid to tell me and I told her that I totally understood and I wouldn’t be upset about being “cut off” as long as I still got to do oral and “clean up duty”! She was happy to hear this and smiled and said “well cucky, you’re cut off”! I just laughed and kissed her. When her boyfriend came over that night we told him about our discussion and I shook his hand and said “I’m very happy that you’re taking care of her needs and her pussy is all yours now”, he laughed and said “Thanks buddy, I’ll do my best”! We all laughed, and to this day I’ve never been inside of her and yes I do miss it a bit but really when I think about it, I’d be even more upset knowing that I just left her feeling unsatisfied like I always did in the past, and that isn’t a nice feeling for me. Cathy has had many long term lovers/boyfriends over the last 14 years and I’ve gotten along very well with every one of them (there’s more in that story lol). Well to end this I just have to say that being a cuckold was the best thing to ever happen to me aside from marrying my beautiful wife, and I’d never want to leave the lifestyle, ever. Everyone’s story will be a bit different and some might not end up with a good experience in the end which is sad but for the most part, almost every cuckold I’ve spoken to and every cuckoldress Cathy has spoken to have had a terrific experience and feel much the same way we do about the lifestyle. Viva La Cuckold Estilo De Vida!

Jerry – thank you for your encouraging and reassuring account of Cathy developing her relationships to the point of displacing you from the marital bed. A situation my wife is now regarding as essential.

Thank you Rowland. As long as you are in complete agreement with your wife removing you from the marital bed (like myself) you will be a VERY happy cuckold. As long as a better man is “making love” to your wife with your blessings and encouragement, and she’s happier than she’s ever been; then your marriage will be strong. As long as Cathy has a good man in her bed I’m a happy cuckold husband, as you’ll soon be if she goes ahead with the plan. I know fully well that if Cathy didn’t have a better man making love to her instead of me it’s doubtful we’d be together now. She still loved me when she was cheating on me, she just has such a high sex drive that she would have been so unhappy because of such a bad sex life with me. Knowing how pathetically tiny my cock is (3 inches hard) and that I would cum in about 1 to 2 minutes of entering (barely) her, I know it would have ended once our daughter was out of the house. So we’re both happy that I discovered her infidelity those many years ago and asked her to continue it because I wouldn’t be a happy cuckold now lol. Her current boyfriend moved in with us when Covid hit, and I’m sleeping in the guest room; so this has been a very happy household lol. And yes our daughter knows about our lifestyle (another long story lol) and totally understands. She even likes to chat with her mom’s boyfriend when she’s visiting 🙂 Oh and yes Cathy reads what I say on here, she smiles and agrees with it all.

As a couple, we communicate more than ever, and never take each other for granted.

I’m not sure our marriage was actually saved by this lifestyle as it was very secure anyway but it has certainly improved it more than I could have expected. Although we started swinging 16 years ago, our relationship still just plodded along in a steady, friendly manner but when Sandra got back in touch with a male friend recently who she’d had sex with several years ago and we decided that he should become her boyfriend, the emotional side of our relationship just took off. The previous time she’d had sex with him, she was very shy and coy about telling me any details and actually made out that the sex wasn’t very good just to protect my feelings. Since this restarted and we’ve discussed things more openly, she has been so much more open when she’s chatted to me about him and my love for her is now like it was when we first met if not, more even emotional. We’ve never told our children about our ‘extra marital’ fun, I wanted to but she didn’t so I went with her decision but I’m sure it would have made things even more exciting, certainly for me if they knew what their sexy mum got up to and my submissive acceptance

Thanks for sharing, Jerry. What has it been like to lick sperm from your wife’s pussy? Did it initially freak out her lovers? Did they adjust well to it? Were you ever commanded to drink right from the hose when your wife was on her period?

We were high school sweethearts. She was the only person I had had sex with before we were married. Three years, we went back to grad school. We lived in a 4 plex with 4 college couples. We became very close to the couple across the hall. One night after we had been drinking, my wife and the next door neighbor left the apartment and went next door. The walls were thin and we could soon hear them having sex. His wife and I proceeded to do the same. that night, my wife learned how good a bigger cock felt.

After we graduated and moved to different cities, she immediately had an affair. When I caught her, she convinced me it was my fault. She said I was too absorbed in my work and not giving her any attention. We agreed on some changes and she said she would stop the affair. She said she loved me.

Several years later, I caught her having another affair. When I finally confronted her, she told me I was too small to satisfy her and I was a lousy sex partner. She had a great body; 34H-26-38. she told me she loved me but she deserved a lover that was her equal. I traveled every week for my business. I became suspicious she had continued her affair. I started testing her panties and panty liners with a semen detection kit. The results were positive. One time, I found a pair of panties with a stain made by a cum covered huge penis. Apparently he hugged her as she was getting dressed. I started fantasying about what it must be like for her to have sex with someone that large.

One night when she was very late coming home, I confronted her as she was getting undressed to shower. Her underwear was cum stained and her pubic area was matted with cum. There was no way to deny it. We talked for a long time about every detail. I admitted I had fantasies about them having sex. I couldn’t imagine her taking a cock the size of the stained panties. I had saved them and showed them to her. She said the sex was incredible but she wanted us to stay together.

The next night, she came home. She finally, told me the man was a black school teacher from her school. She said she had told him about my fantasies. She told him I wanted to watch them have sex. He told her it was about time for this to come out into the open. He agreed to come to our house Saturday afternoon.

When he arrived, I met a younger man 6′ 1″ who was attractive and well-muscled. He introduced himself as Don and told me to fix him a drink. My wife was still getting dressed. He told me there had to be some ground rules. He asked me if I was sure I could handle watching. I had to be restrained and gagged. He didn’t want to have to worry about a potential violent reaction if I couldn’t handle my emotions. If I didn’t agree he would leave. I reluctantly agreed.

My wife came down to the family room wearing a see-through night gown that displayed her large breasts. They sat down on the couch while I went to get her a drink. When I returned, they were kissing and fondling her breasts. He explained the ground rules to my wife and asked me if I still agreed. I said yes and he said it was time to head the bedroom.

I was told to undress and sit in a chair. They had cuffs that fit on my wrists and ankles. They chained these to the chair securely. He took a pair of her dirty panties from the dirty clothes bin and stuffed them in my mouth. He stood before her and she undressed him. When his boxers came off, I was shocked. A semi hard uncircumcised cock hung almost to his knee. I had never seen anything that large. As she sucked it became even longer and thicker. When he was fully erect, he laid her on the bed with me staring directly at her pussy. He climbed between her legs and started rubbing his huge cock against her opening. I watched in amazement as he slowly stretched her open as he entered her. He slowly gave her more on each stroke. By the time, he had all his cock in her, she had orgasmed twice. I witnessed her have more climaxes during this session than she had in a year with me. I had a raging erection and had cum without being touched. As he was leaving, He told me to lick her clean. I did.

We talked after he left. She told me, he would like to be able to come over anytime he wanted and have sex. She said we would still have sex but he would have the right anytime he wanted. I agreed since I knew I couldn’t compete and it would happen any way.

This was seventeen years ago. He still comes by any time he wants. Our sex life and marriage has been excellent since everything became open. I know my place and accept it.

Hi to all of you, thanks for your constructive testimonies. May have to wright some in a fe days….