Modern Marriage: male chastity and the natural needs of the woman

great post!! totally agree!!
for me a moder marriege is based on:

for hubbie:
no kind of sex
permante caged 365/24/7
totally devoted to wife
to recognize as his own wife’s children

For Wife:
total freedom of sex with whomever she wants
right to be impregnated by those who want her
right to deny any sexual activity to the hubby
right to disclose the status of the couple to whomever wants

Thank You for those wonderful words of wisdom. I find myself in such a relationship whereas my Wife no longer allows me to even see Her naked and i am comfortable with that. Along this journey i actually started using a cage all by myself to keep from masturbating all the time. Unfortunately my wife does not want to be open with me about her affairs and has got pissed at me for being overly encouraging. I am improving my attitude everyday but long for her to be open and honest about our relationship. Perhaps the description above of M.M. will help Her accept what we are already doing.

thank You so much

I agree with realsubcuckold’s.
For me, a modern marriage is based on:

for hubbie:
– no sex
– permante caged 365/24/7
– recognize as the children of his own wife

For women:
– total freedom of sex with whomever she wants
– right to be permeated by those who want it and with whom she wants (even blacks)
– right to refuse any sexual activity to the husband
– right to disclose the status of the couple to anyone

I agree with all the above definitions. And I would add that it is the perfect lifestyle for my wife and therefore me as well.
Personally I think this world would be a better place if all relationships involving a male were female led, naturally including governments.

Agree, been in a FLR marriage for 52 years.

A modern marriage with BBC

for hubbie:
– no sex
– permante caged 365/24/7
– recognize as the children of his own wife

For women:
– total freedom of sex with whomever she wants
– right to be permeated by those who want it and with whom she wants (even blacks)
– right to refuse any sexual activity to the husband
– right to disclose the status of the couple to anyone

Do you think FLR is ALWAYS connected with male chastity/caging etc.? What if the wife wants to have sometimes sex with her husband? Ok, she decides whether she wants or not. I see the definition of FLR more open and not totally focused on male chastity.

In my opinion a FLR and male chastity are inseparable things, no matter how much different kind of views on a FLR there are. If a FLR does not contain male chastity then call it FLA (Female Loving Authority) or SMW (Soft Mens Marriage) or what ever. No chastity, no male submission, no female Leadership. Real chastity is necessary to proof its not a simple game for his amusement.

So “My” FLR is as follows:
being “pussy-free”? Yes, pussy-free. What else. There are rare moments when my penis is allowed to feel what he usual is denied to. Of course if this happens then its only for seconds. It is humiliating and frustrating to have to leave before anything happens. If I cant take my chance because little Thomas is too weak it’s humiliating too.

not ever being brought to orgasm? Since I know my wife she is strictly reluctant to bring me to orgasm. She sees male orgasms as only necessary for reproduction. Otherwise it’s just a lower instinct leading men to violation and other vilification of female being. Hence it is annoying, needless and not tolerated. Not to mention any support by her.

permanently caged? Yes, this is the goal. But it’s indeed real difficult to reach. Physical reasons make it hard to come to a satisfying level. So mostly I am caged, but not all the time. My wife is not contented and so I am.

fighting masturbation? There is nor more left to fight. Its light years away.

orgasm denial? This is the principle. On rare times she lets me follow my lower instincts. But it always correlates with corporal pain and cruel humiliation. If orgasmus, then only without any fun!

having no sexual encounters or activities with his wife
or any combination of those variables? No. My wife loves to be pleasured by me. She calls for it about 3 times in the week. The catch here is that using my penis or enjoying my own sexuality are forbidden fruits for me! Cage stays on, punishment for any emission. And an erection better stays undiscovered.

To some people all I write may sound harsh, but about 60% of it makes my kind of FLR. The rest is hers.

Interesting perspectives. So I see, many or most poster here see Modern Marriage or FLR necessarily connected with male chastity and total sexual freedom for the wife. Indeed, quite harsh. Who starts in most cases FLR? She or He? and how did it start?

I offer to migrate towards a FLM but she declined. She still enjoys leading and not being questioned. I think it’s more of what it would imply about her. What kind of woman would be the de facto leader at home?

I also told her she could be with whomever she wanted whenever she wanted. She thought about it for a couple days then declined. She said she would be mortified if anyone found out.

So I offer.

In this day ang age she should not worry about her friends finding out. Some of them are probably already taking lovers.

What if she wants a child? When I ask my wife about having a child she said it would have to be thru artificial insemination that way I would be the legal father and responsible for the child. I have to pay for it but she get to chosse the doner. Do you know of any couples who had children like that?