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February 19, 2019 at 2:32 pm #27035gary001
My wife, Christy and I have been married for almost two years now and she was a virgin when we married. I already knew that my tiny penis wasn’t going to be able to satisfy her sexually because, in all of my previous sexual encounters, my tiny tool always left the female frustrated.
It was obvious on our wedding night that I didn’t satisfy my new bride, even though she was nervous about making love for the first time. Over the following few months, it became very clear that my penis wasn’t doing anything for my bride and, although she kept telling me not to worry about it, I knew that after waiting all this times for a good pounding, her pussy was always left feeling very frustrated. It turns out that Christy is very highly sexed, something that she didn’t even realize until we married. She had told me that she used to masturbate at least three times a day while we were engaged. I knew that I needed to find a solution and make her sexually fulfilled. I had read on other sites about cuckolding and spoke to her about it. Surprisingly enough, she seemed very interested (I guess the lack of a proper penis had caused her more frustration than I had imagined).
We started looking at cuckold sites together and the more that we researched, the more interested she got. We researched deeply, and found this site, Cuckold Marriage info. We read the introduction and most of the other articles and Christy began to understand how a proper cuckold marriage is supposed to be, (Unlike the other cuckold forums, where it’s all about the guy getting off with his wife screwing another guy). Slowly, we both found that the idea of her having a good sexual partner seemed the right way to go. Further to our research on this site, she realized that, just because she would be giving her body to another Alpha male for sexual fulfilment, it doesn’t mean that we have a bad marriage, in fact, apart from sex, our two year marriage has been perfect in every way. This should bring us even closer, because she won’t be feeling sexually frustrated and it would take a lot of pressure off my shoulders.
Christy is a petite brunette with an amazing figure and she goes to the gym five times a week to keep it that way, her smallish 34B cup breasts don’t need support but she still wears a bra.
Anyway, she told me about a guy at the gym, Greg, he is always chatting to her and asked her for a drink on several occasions, but she’d always refused because she was spoken for. To cut a long story short, she did eventually go for a drink with him and although nothing sexual happened, apart from a good night kiss, she seemed to like him a lot. Their dates became more frequent, sometimes, three evenings a week, yet still the only sex they had was kissing good night and the touching of her very firm ass through her dress.
It was after one of her date night’s with him and we were in bed, trying to make love together (Again, another total fail on my part) when I suggested that she take things to the next level with Greg and make love with him.
“I would love to!” Christy whispered, “But we would need some ground rules, like the cuckold marriage info site suggested.”She told me that, she could only have sex with one person and I would be denied her body, (As the intro suggested)
I agreed with this and knew that it would take a lot of stress and pressure from me because I wouldn’t have to worry about leaving her frustrated anymore.
We agreed that I would have zero sexual contact with her whatsoever, that would be the role of her lover.
We agreed that only he should see her naked body or even partially undressed, this would help me with my frustrations, if I couldn’t see her in her bra or thong, I wouldn’t lust after her body.
We agreed that I should look at her sexually as a stranger and when we share the same bed, I would wear my shorts and she would wear a bra, panties, tee shirt and shorts.
We agreed that I am not allowed to touch her at all and on the night’s that he stays here, they would use our matrimonial bed and I would sleep in the guest room.We also agreed that she should kiss him and snuggle with him in front of me because he would be the alpha male.
We discussed “Love” as well and I encouraged her to have feelings for him, after all, he is her sexual partner and she should love him as much or even more than she loves me.
The first time that she had sex with him was at his apartment and she did feel a little guilty after, but after all three of us discussing it, luckily those feelings only lasted a few days.
Greg is now a good friend of mine and we are all very close. Christy openly tells him that she loves him in front of me and they share our matrimonial bed three times a week. Our marriage is stronger than ever now and it pleases me a great deal to see her with Greg and know that she is sexually fulfilled now.
Now, eighteen months later, I still have not seen my beautiful wife in any form of undress but we are completely happy and even closer than before! We have discussed babies and we are prepared for Greg to father any children that we want, when that time comes along.
Do I miss her body? Yes, but what’s more important to me is the emotional love that we share. I never saw her body before we were married and I loved her unconditionally then.
We talk openly at least once a month on how we feel and so far, we have not had one negative thing to discuss. Thanks to this amazing site for giving us the correct advise and knowledge to save our marriage!
I’m enclosing a picture of Christy that I took on our honeymoon and as you see, she’s very fit and sexy.
Christy doesn’t class Greg as a bull, she classes him as her boyfriend and so do I.
Thanks and I welcome your thoughts and views on our lifestyle.
Thank you Gary. -
February 20, 2019 at 2:12 am #27040Anonymous
Though I agree that you are denied having penetration as cuckold but I disagree about stopping any sexual relationship with your wife. Sex is an important factor of successfull long term marriages and giving it up for a third makes no good. Sex strengtent the bond between husband and wife. It is obvious that your penis is useless but you have tongue and fingers and you can satisfy her or be part of her sex life by them. It is not fair even in cuckold relationships neglecting the cuckold totally.
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February 20, 2019 at 7:31 am #27042gary001
Thank you bpcuckold for your reply and advice, Christy and I discussed the total sex ban and we decided that it would be the best way to go for my benefit, no cookies on the table, means that you can’t e tempted to eat one. It was more my decision than hers and it has worked well for us for the past year and a half. Would you suggest that she involve me in sex?
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February 22, 2019 at 6:19 am #27073gary001
Wanted to give you a quick update. After talking in the chat room here last night and listening to the advice of more experienced cuckold members, Christy, Greg and I are going to talk at lunchtime and modify some of my exclusions. I’ll get back on here later this afternoon and let you know what changes we are making. Thanks for the advice, friends.
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February 22, 2019 at 2:37 pm #27079gary001
Wanted to give you a quick update. Christy, Greg and I all met at lunchtime and we discussed a few things, mainly, allowing me some sexual activity with her.
I made a list of the things that I was asking for and they are as follows:
1.I asked if I could start seeing her naked.
2.I asked if I could sleep naked with her.
3.I asked if she could jerk me off a few times a week.
4, I asked it I could touch her.Let me add that all three of us are happy to discuss anything and we are all open about everything.
Where possible, I will quote things that were said at our get together.
Greg, doesn’t want me to see her naked. His actual words were, “Gary, I really don’t want you to see her naked body, that solely belongs to me and I’m the only one who should see it.”
Christy, said, “I’m not happy for you to see me naked either, like Greg said, my body is his now.”So, we reached a compromise, I can see her in her bra, and panties and she will sleep with me wearing only those. She’s gone out now to buy some panties because she only has thongs and strings in her lingerie drawer.
They don’t want me to sleep in the nude, I am allowed to sleep naked one night per week with her at my side, but I must not touch her!
I can cuddle her tummy but I must not touch her ass, breasts, or pussy.
On the one night a week that I can sleep naked, if I’m a good cuck, she will jerk me off but I must not cum over her, I have to cum in her hand and I must lick her hand clean after.
I am allowed to touch her ass through her dress but not when she has her panties on with me, I cannot touch her bra, breasts, or pussy…ever. Those parts are his to touch only!
I am very happy with how things went and the level of complete openness between us all. And on Monday night, for the first time in eighteen months, I will get to see and sleep with her while she’s wearing only her bra and panties and if I’m good over the weekend, she may jerk me off!
All together a VERY happy outcome!
They kissed openly in front of me after we had talked and declared their love for each other.
I’m hoping to get a picture of her in her bra and panties to share with you all on Monday evening! -
February 23, 2019 at 8:00 pm #27128gary001
Christy came home at 10.20 this morning after spending the night at her boyfriends (Greg), and we sat down and talked about the changes that were made yesterday. She asked me if I was happy with the compromises that we made yesterday and I told her that I was very happy, now I get to sleep with her while she’s only wearing her bra, and panties (she bought some panties yesterday) instead of her tee shirt and shorts. She did ask me to be patient with her as it is going to feel strange, allowing me to see her in her bra, and panties after all this time. I told her that her happiness is paramount to me and if she wants to take it slowly and start off by keeping her tee shirt on, then that’s fine with me, as I understand how strange it will be and I don’t want to embarrass her, she hugged me and thanked me and agreed to start off by keeping her tee shirt on for the first few days.
We decided that the night that I can sleep naked will be Monday’s and that’s when she will jerk me off. I told her that I was very happy with the discussion yesterday and she apologized for Greg not wanting me to see her naked. I told her that Greg owns her body and that decision is his and hers alone, I have no say in the matter. I told her that what Greg want’s, Greg has, because he is #1 in her life and I come second.
She asked me if I were ok with that and I reassured her that, I am completely ok with it. -
February 26, 2019 at 7:27 am #27170gary001
So, last night, Christy saw me naked for the first time since becoming a cuckold, and she worked my tiny penis off for me. I couldn’t keep my erection (Not that anyone could tell the difference)
I shot my load with a limp penis in her hand and I licked the few blobs of cum.
She was nervous about me seeing her in her bra and newly purchased panties, so we are taking that slowly and last night, she slept with me wearing only her tee shirt, bra and panties. It was amazing seeing her in her panties and she held my tiny penis while we kissed passionately before and during her jerking of my tiny tool. She says that by the end of the week, she should be comfortable enough to allow me to see her in her bra as well.
That was the first time that I have ever cum with a limp penis. But it felt so good to feel her hand on my limp penis. -
March 5, 2019 at 6:24 pm #27237gary001
Just a quick update. My wife has started chatting to and, is very fond of another guy now.
She only sees her boyfriend at the weekend and that’s not enough sex for her. Although I like her boyfriend, I know that she is still sexually frustrated throughout the week. I am hoping that things with this new guy will progress and they will eventually hook up together. From what she has told me about him, he sounds like a great guy and she is already talking about spending the whole week with him, alone, as he lives so far away. My role as her cuckold husband is to support her in every way and welcome him into our life and I hope that they can meet soon and enjoy each other in every possible way. -
April 22, 2019 at 9:05 pm #27873HappyCuckold
It seems you have reached a reasonable compromise! You remain properly focused on her sexual satisfaction. Yet there is a small reward for cuckie in the agreement! wonderful!
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April 24, 2019 at 11:10 pm #27947Cathy & JerryParticipant
We’re on pins and needles here Gary, please give us an update on her new lover and his ability to please her. 🙂
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May 8, 2019 at 6:12 pm #28123gary001
So, I wanted to give an update on our life and I apologize for not writing sooner but work has kept me so busy and I wanted to see how things progressed between Christy and Cody, (The new guy she liked)
She went for a date with Cody and they hit it off superbly, they never had sex but they did kiss passionately. The second and third dates went almost the same except for a little more fondling.
On the Thursday evening, she brought him home with her to meet me and he did seem very nervous about meeting me but after I reassured him that I knew he was going to be sexual with her and he was to be in control, he relaxed and talked openly.
Christy had already told him that we don’t have a sexual relationship and she told him about Greg as well. It was just after 11pm when she took his hand and told him to take her to bed, our matrimonial bed!
He spent the night with her and the following Monday and Tuesday night. She slept with me on the Wednesday, in her bra and panties and she worked me off.
The Thursday evening, Cody came over and we all talked about what was happening and the future, he explained that he wasn’t keen on her sleeping with Greg each weekend so she decided to break it off with Greg and remain solely Cody’s. Greg was ok with it and didn’t seem to mind her breaking things with him.
Now, six weeks later, she and Cody spend every night together with the exception of Wednesdays, when she sleeps with me. The weekends she spends at his house and the rest of the time, he sleeps here. Last weekend, he took her to meet his parents in Illinois and they spent the whole weekend away together.
He is now her #1 and the special bond that they are forming is a beautiful thing to witness, she loves coupling with him and tells me how satisfying her sex life is now.Cody is a very clean and nice guy and I know he thinks the world of her.
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May 13, 2019 at 10:37 am #28147Cathy & JerryParticipant
That’s fantastic, we’re very happy that it’s working out so good for you two (three). Please keep us all informed of your cuckold lifestyle, and keep up the good work. 🙂
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May 17, 2019 at 12:48 pm #28172she plays he watches
gary001 very exciting. Pity about Greg, the extra difference could have been nice to have continued, though as you have said, you and her are happy with Cody. Have fun and enjoy the lifestyle.
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