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Ryan11
Hi, I’m new to the website and have been involved in the lifestyle for about a year. A little about myself: I’m 27 and have been dating my bf for about 10 years total, though we split up for about 2 years eight years ago when he started college and we didn’t sleep together until we got back together. Before him i’d slept with a few other guys, one was a one night stand, the others were more frequent hook-up partners though we weren’t dating. All of the guys I had slept with before my bf were pretty big and even the one that I thought was small, I know now was actually way above average.
When my bf and I first slept together I was a little tipsy and told him that he was much smaller than any of the other guys I had hooked up with. I felt so bad about it, but over time he would ask questions about how big the other guys were and what it was like to sleep with them. I was uncomfortable, but noticed that he’d get hard during these conversations. I always thought this was strange, but didn’t ask about it because I didn’t want to embarrass him. I really love him, but he could never make me orgasm, and for a while I’d fake it just to give him some confidence. He’s not actually that small (about 5 inches) but I definitely thought he was small and pretty much always thought that’s why he couldn’t make me cum.
Finally one day he told me that he fantasized about me having sex with other men who had bigger dicks. It came out because there was this guy I am friends with who has a serious crush on me and he had invited my bf on a guys trip to vegas. Apparently my friend sleeps naked and my bf saw him naked with some very impressive morning wood. My bf told me about it and asked if I was curious about his size. I sheepishly said I was and he finally told me he jerked off to the thought of me fucking my friend. So we began to talk about it more and role play and watch a lot of porn. It helped our sex life and even began to cum sometimes usually with the help of toys. About a year ago, my bf asked if I wanted to take the next step and sleep with somebody else. I did and we agreed that i’d sleep with that friend with the big dick if he agreed (which he did). The sex was amazing and I couldn’t believe how much of a difference it was. My bf was jealous, but also seemed to really love watching. I continue to sleep with my friend and my bf is fine with it as long as he can watch, listen or get pictures. Sometimes (okay a lot of times) I tease my bf about his dick size compared to my friend and that leads to him going down on me so much better than ever before.
In the past year, i’ve slept with a few other men (all bigger than my bf) and once had an amazing threesome with my bf’s longtime female friend and her husband. This came about because my bf and his friend tell each other everything (well almost. He never told her he had a small dick, probably because he has a little crush on her). She told him once that her husband has a really thick cock and once I found out, he said he’d be fine if I slept with them. I told her about our relationship and she agreed to a threesome. His cock was fantastic and I must’ve yelled the whole time how much bigger he is than my bf who wasn’t in the room. It’s really hot that we all know about it and have this interconnected relationship. They’re our closest friends and the dynamic has changed but it seems to work.
Obviously we’re still new to all of this. I will say that i’m not sure I could ever go back to just my bf’s dick. I need bigger and love him even more that he accepts that. I’m nervous though about whether this sort of relationship can last. What does everybody think? Has anybody had similar experiences to me and my bf?
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Say_Oy
LOL, you are no a Cuckold Marriage board. Obviously some people who have such relationships have the relationship last. I think the key is that you are both satisfied both with the sex and with the other aspects of the relationship. If you get along great outside the bed and he likes you doing what you like then why would it break up?
I think the main thing is that you two communicate and do what you do with respect and the other’s happiness in mind. Also, go through scenarios to get a better feeling of what the limits are. (What if you get knocked up? What if the lover wants to move in? What if you fall in love? What if BF hates a particular lover that you are really hot for? What about domination and submission? – not all cucks are into being dominated / humiliated. What if you decide you want to stop sleeping around?)
And, after 10 years it’s probably time for him to pop the question. -
stonemtncouple
Yes your relationship with your small BF can last and flourish!
It will be crucial that you keep your BF satisfied and make him feel loved and appreciated. Your BF believes that he is making you happy by encouraging your Cuckolding fun. You are enjoying your relationship and love your BF for varied reasons and experiencing sexual fulfillment from him and others with his encouragement.
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Ryan11
Thanks, I appreciate the responses! I’m glad to find other people who have experienced this. Good advice about making sure my bf is satisfied as well in his own way. I always wonder if small penis humiliation and even the thrill of me sleeping around will get tiresome. Right now the sph gets him going more than anything else, but i’m always a little concerned that eventually he won’t like it… same with the cuckolding
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4DecadeCuck
I know that a cuckold relationship can last, for decades. I think that most all women prefer men who have bigger cocks, for sex. And men who have bigger cocks often have more to offer in other areas, other than sex, too. My current wife asked me why I love cock so much. I told her it was because they are beautiful. And men who have big cocks always seem to get sex so easy, for obvious reasons. What a bigger cock can do to and for a woman, even men, is magical and awesome. What is there not to like about a big cock?
There are those of us men that really relish in our women enjoying other, bigger, cocks. We want you to have what you want and need, and if other men can give that to you, all the better. To many of us the sight of our woman sucking and loving another man’s cock, and then seeing this cock sliding in and out is awe inspiring. We lesser men can learn so much about women from seeing them with other men. We learn what women want and truly enjoy. And we see our woman happiest, which is our biggest desire.
My wife has several local boyfriends and also has boyfriends in several other states. When they are here or we go to them, my wife always acts as if they are her husband and I am the friend. When we go to her boyfriends, she sleeps with them and acts like they are the couple, and that excites me. She does things with her boyfriends that are special to just them, and that is exciting, too.
Recently my wife told me that the reason she loves Roy so much is because he is so passionate, in sex and everything else. She loves Tom because he is rugged, tall, and just really manly. She likes taller men, men who have big cocks and men who are just really manly. She says that I am the most girly guy she’s ever been with. When we first got together, my wife told me that she preferred taller men, and that I had the smallest penis of any man she’d ever been with. She’s said that I feel better after she’s been with other men, and that sex just with me just isn’t fun or feel that good.
I am more attracted to very thin women and my wife is more attracted to taller men, big cocked men, men who are masculine, hunters, bikers, construction workers, etc. She also prefers darker skinned men. Her newest boyfriend is from Nigeria. He’s tall, dark skinned, 23 years old, 27 years younger than she is. He has a lot of stamina and he makes her very happy. Her second recent boyfriend is from Niger. He’s 22 years old and just as good a lover as her most recent.
A woman who connects with a man like me and your boyfriend is very fortunate, and so are we, as boyfriends and husbands. Seeing our wife or girlfriend enjoying sex with other men is knowing that we are allowing what she needs most. We provide everything else, emotional support, financial support, sharing of chores, dealing with that time of month, etc. And the other men get to be with our women when they are at their very best. And that’s the way it should be. We all have our purpose, and bigger cock men have a sexual purpose that us smaller penis men don’t and couldn’t accomplish even if we tried.
I say keep having sex with other men and you will always be able to keep your boyfriend happy.
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Ryan11
Quick update! I slept with a co-worker last night while on a work trip. My bf had agreed beforehand that he could listen. I told my coworker that I wanted him to fuck me and then grazed his crotch before going up to his hotel room. He asked me about my bf and I said my bf doesn’t get a choice and that I can do whoever I want but that I want my bf to be able to listen. So I undressed him and liked what I saw so I went to change and told him to call my bf. He did and told him that he was going to fuck the shit out of me! My bf loved it. I came back and pretended I didn’t know he was on the phone so commented about his size. Then I measured him and made sure to say how big he was out loud. The sex was amazing and I definitely thought about it some more when I was by myself this morning. My bf loved it as well and when we talked after he said he came pretty quickly!
Hope you enjoyed the update!
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TooSmall
This is a great thread! Keep us updated on how it’s going!
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