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    • #19627
      cuckoldsameh
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        My wife cuckolded me in the past , but never with a black guy . Actually , it was more like cheating on me and we were about to divorce , that’s why we decided not to go on with the lifestyle for a while .

        2 months ago , my wife moved to a new company . For the first time , she has a black co-worker . She talks to me about him from time to time . But more in a joking way . She talks about how funny he speaks English , and how funny blacks are talking , etc . My wife came from a mainly white society so she didn’t have black friends or colleagues in the past .

        She tells me that he looks ugly , and even sometimes making fun of his face and his expressions . And she says that it’s strange that many of her white colleagues are attracted to him . She said he has a fit , muscular body .

        What I find strange is that despite that she talks about him in a joking way and making fun of him , but at the end she talks about him to me all the time . She doesn’t talk in the same way about her other co – workers .

        Today , she went to work wearing a sexy dress and putting make up and wearing high heels .

        She told me that he complemented her and told her that she looked sexy in this dress and that she should dress like this all the time . I felt she was excited that he told her this .

        So , my questions are : Do you think that my wife is attracted to him ? Does her talking about him even in a joking way reflects some interest ? And if he commented on her dress and asked her to wear it more frequently , does it mean he is hitting on her ?
        I want my wife to fuck a black guy finally , what are your advices to make it happen ?

      • #19933
        Say_Oy

          It’s kind of obvious. Duh.

          The thing is you say you almost got divorced because she was cheating on you before so you stopped… you need to talk to her and set some ground rules if she is going to and you want her to fuck the guy. It sounds like what you want is for her to share with you when she gets fucked. the problem is that “cheating” may be part of the turn on for her. Maybe you can get her to tell you more this time around…. or maybe you can have her tell him he should tell you and have him send you pictures and video when he fucks her. But you and she need to talk a lot more and come up with rules.

        • #19935
          MatureMUK
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            this can be a risky area. if we had emotional feelings before that nearly had you parting ways..why would a new guy be any different?
            if you are actually ok with a limited adult agreement eg occasional discreet fuckings .. or do we want more ? maybe wife found you too eager etc?
            a proper adult honest open chat can set out parameters that have you both feeling relationship is being expanded and rewarding.. if she feels used? dirty etc then it will fail. if as you say she is now interested in him and dressing to please him.. then she ought to be honest if she wants to have a physical relationship with him. are you ok with discreet sex? do you want to have more interaction ? eg see? listen etc .
            all aspects need to be talked over so we are both confident where rules are set and we both agree . if it works ..then its often really rewarding and addictive. if we find it raises issues ..we need to be able to agree how to resolve. good luck. maybe if it plans out well .this site can hear more about it all.

          • #20225
            Gracie

              You need to just come out and tell her: Hell yes, dress very sexy for your black co-worker and fuck his brains out!

              Just do it!

              Gracie: Chick with a Dick

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