New Norm

I have previously written on the development of a steady boyfriend of my wife who is 39, well built, hung, smart, successful, single who lives in the city. My wife and I discuss daily the interactions, the moments, and how if feels for her to have a steady BF. While it is clearly still early in their relationship, her and I both agreed, this feels like/seem as if this is how it should be. It is natural, comfortable. There is no negative at this point.

My wife told me she enjoys the hour train ride to the city as it is great to build the anticipation when she is going to see Mike and a great self download time when she is alone with her thoughts on the ride back to me. This trip was less sex focused and more dating – they went to a French Restaurant (which I paid the $200 bill) and enjoyed their dinner and drinks before going to his place for animal sex. They both came then watched a movie wrapped up cuddling on the couch.

She slept better in his arms for six hours before having a morning love making – slow, deliberate, not rushed, and he filled her up again for her trip home. He walked to buy her a starbucks while she got herself together and walked her to the train home.

This was their second meeting this week and both talked about this being the right frequency. She is not yet ready for multiple nights but knows it is in their future. His door is always open – any time, any day for her. She enjoys the differences – stronger, tighter, hairy chest, longer cock, and how hard, long, and fast he goes sexually. He is very attentive and caring to her which is important for us all.

I am getting my head around it all and told her before she said to me, this feels right. My time alone lets me focus on getting things done and time to think. She is happier, we communicate about it all and she reminds me often there is another man in her life.