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Hello guys.

I have signed up here on the forum today to tell you my story/current status and to hear your opinion & advice. I’m a big fan of this blog and an interrested reader since I discovered it.

My gf and I are together for 10years now, she’s slightly younger than me, both close to 30, and she doesn’t cuckold me (yet) but she knows about my fantasy and wish to get cuckolded. I first mentioned it about two years ago, and kept bringing it up ever since. Her very first reaction back then was “shocked” but changed to “i dont want to, you are enough for me, but i accept you’d like to” over time. Which is a better mindset than, “I need to drop you” but still not what a wannebe cuckold is hoping for.

Maybe it is just the normal reaction of a wife/gf when confronted with the topic for the first time, maybe the quite conservative nature of my gf’s childhood or the fact that she was a virgin when we got together, or all of them were reasons to react that way.

Well that was the state of mind over the last two years. Last week though things changed a bit, I’d even say a lot.

We were talking about our sex and our relationship when I again mentioned my cuckolding fantasies, my desire to devote myslef to her, the wish she’d lock me to a chastity cage and so on, when I said that I really am happy with 98% of what we have and that the 2% to 100 would be, to try out those things, and then she surprised me!

She confessed that she has got as well 2% missing for a longtime perfect match, and her two percent made me shake. She said that lately something she never thought of before keeps coming to her mind. It’s not omipresent nor is she currently really in need for it, but she’s feeling it/thinking about it. She said that due to the fact that she never had sex with another man but she, she fears that she might miss out on something in her life.

When I heard that I couldn’t belive what she just said, she didn’t notice it, but she answered to all my hopes of her cuckolding me with what she said. And she didn’t say it to please me, it was rather a moment of “i tell you my secrets, you tell me yours”

We both were tipsy and got emotional, and while she tended to ignore my wish to kink up our sexlife in the past she now directly said to me that she still loves me “no matter how kinky my fantasies/or wishes (all sub motivated) are. I felt and feel super comfortable with her and how things are going now. The fact that she didn’t even notice that my desire for her to cuckold me and her wish “not to miss out on other experiences” IS a perfect match, but I guess just as this took time to develop inside her, she’ll find out in future.

What do you think? Are we making progress? Is that the way? Did you go down a simmilar road before you first really did exerience a cuckold lifestyle?

I’d really be thankful for your feedback and your experiences! I think we are on a good way, and maybe one or two years later you might be able to welcome another hotwife and cuckold to your community?!