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    • #9587
      dirtbag

        My wife is going to Vegas in about 3 months with a bunch of her girlfriends to celebrate her friends 50th birthday (my wife is much younger). They are talking about going to strip clubs and they are buying short skirts and slutty outfits already. It would be really cool if she would hook-up with a random guy.
        I want to tell her it is ok to do whatever she wants to have a good time and that it is ok to play with other guys. I want her to feel uninhibited while she is there, but she may not want to be too bad because her friends will be there.

        How can I bring up the subject?

        Since we have a few months what can I do to encourage her to lose control?

        What about right before she leaves? Should I give her lots of sex to make her horny or no sex/lousy sex to make her horny?
        I was thinking of adding a package of condoms to her suitcase and removing her panties before she goes?

      • #11002
        Luvr
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          The limiting factor is the group of friends she’s with and how permissive they’d be of her behavior. Simply dressing like a hotwife is a nice start, but by no means an indication that she’ll behave as one. This is more a ‘shared adventure’ between them and as I said, will only play out as far as the group’s collective judgement extends. Sometimes women in a ‘pack’ like this will behave as they otherwise wouldn’t, but then you may not hear about it because they’ve sworn each other to secrecy or she’ll feel it would be something she could never admit to.
          If you haven’t already had some of these discussions, it’s likely too late to start now and expect some outcome, but you can still make mention of it so she knows that the ‘sin’ won’t be having fun, but not telling you about it.

        • #11004
          dirtbag

            Thanks.
            I just learned yesterday that one of the women that is going spent the weekend in Cabo this weekend without her husband and kids. I think I am going to encourage my wife to spend more time with her. Maybe share a room with her?

          • #11005
            Luvr
            Keymaster

              That’s an interesting development and provides a potential ‘partner in crime’ for your wife. Keep us up to date.

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