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    • HappySubCuckie
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        September 24, 2025 at 11:23 am
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        #97783

        Hi All, my wife and I are new to the lifestyle. After a decade without sex she has opened up to having a lover. We have had 3 men and she really loves having a well endowed man pleasure her as I watch. As a sub hubby with a small tool and ED it has really added so much for us.
        The issue is finding the right guy. Scheduling has ended one quickly (he was excellent and bi for me) and now the newest guy is a weekday only, which is hard for me as I work M-F days in my office at home. I like to be a part of it but making a living takes priority. I am struggling with letting them have their time together to make her happy. I would apprciate insights from experienced couples, especially Hotwives. I don’t want to be selfish.

      • Cathy & Jerry
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          September 29, 2025 at 3:50 pm
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          #98232

          How long have they been lovers? If it’s been a fair bit of time, give them their alone time, they deserve that. As a woman I can attest to not liking it when my cuckold husband is in the same room as me and my lover. I even prefer that he’s not in the house at all if possible. Having alone time with my lover allows me to let myself go, give myself completely to a much better lover than Jerry, without having those little thoughts that I’m aware of being watched or listened to. If you love her and feel that she truly deserves to have a lover, then she must also deserve her time with him alone. This lifestyle is somewhat for the cuckold but in reality, it’s mainly for the desires and needs of the cuckold’s wife.

        • Jenny
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            October 2, 2025 at 11:24 am
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            #98927

            you have to . we all seek wife pleasure so let her do it

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