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    • Anonymous
        June 24, 2013 at 3:39 am
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        #9550

        Hi

        My wife and I have been married for 15 years now.
        When I met my wife she was a very active “party girl” who enjoyed going out to have fun in the weekend. She got a lot of attention from the men when she where in the clubs and did also hat many one night stands also when she where in a steady relationship with her boyfriends.
        She loved to flirt with all her male friends.

        This did made me jealous but it was also quite exciting to see that she got all this attention. She told me that she do belie that love and sex necessary are connected and that she did have sex with men without and feelings at all.

        During our relationship she did but all this aside (and i truly belie her) and we now have kids. I have tried a couple of times to talk about threesome with an extra man in bed which she did found interesting, but we never moved forward with this.

        The last couple of years I have told her a few times that if she gets an interesting offer from a woman, couple or man she is allowed to act on this one time without me being around. She responded me that she would never allow me to do that same and was nervous that my offer was just trick for me do fuck around. I told her that I was not interested in this and that I belie that her having sex with other would boost her self estime and in the end also improve our sexlife.

        A couple of times she has been talking about this when we have sex and she ask if I would prefer her to have sex with people she know or strangers, if it should be long term relationships or one night stands. :) So it seams that she is getting more interesting in this lifestyle. I told her that I would perfer that the men would be one-night stands with strangers but I think I have changes my mind and will let her have sex with someone she knows from her past (she does not know this yet)

        In half a years there are a big part for all the past students on her old High School which I have told her that she should go for in the hope that there will be some action for her ;)

        I will until that date try to keep her interested into this but I don’t want to look to eager since she otherwise will stop this interesting journey.
        Does any of you have a good idea on how to send her small hints on this with out being “desperate”

        If this is going to happens I have been thinking of how to act on her so she will feel this as an win/win situation. Here I think I will try to be a little jealous (which properly are going to happens naturally) and “work hard to win her back” so she will see that I still love her and be a better husband while she are allowed to fuck around.

        I hope this will be a very positive experience for both of us and that my wife will grow sexual and her self esteem.

        BTW I am not a typical cuckold, since I do have a normal sized cock are good in bed (so she tells me) and I do not have a real sub nature – just love a powerful and sexual woman how know how to turn men on.

        What do you think of this and my approach on her journy?

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        Keymaster
          June 24, 2013 at 4:03 am
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          #10143

          I told her that my requirement was that she needs to be 100% honest about this and that is she needs to tell me EVERY details on what she did on her “dates”

        • jroll77
            June 24, 2013 at 11:44 pm
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            #10145

            As was in the same boat you are, my wife was very reluctant to begin this lifestyle. We would role play often and would talk about if it should be someone we know or a stranger. I would constantly reassure her I would be okay and she was only to do what she is comfortable with. After years of discussions she finally had her first one night stand and like you said I had to win her back. I kissed her passionately knowing he just came in her mouth 15 minutes earlier, then laid her down licking the taste of their sex from her pussy, and finally fucking her to 6 orgasms. She told me after if she knew it was gonna be this good she would have done this years ago.

            Will you be attending this reunion with her? If so how hot will it be for her to disappear with a guy, fuck him and suck him, and have her walk back in and give you a passionate kiss as he watches. Take her shopping to buy something sexy in case something will happen. Have her try stuff on and explain how another man would love to see you in that. I would always tell my wife it was something to try and if we both didnt enjoy it that would be it. Now she has a regular boyfriend and our sex life has definatly improved. Good luck to you.

          • Luvr
            Keymaster
              June 25, 2013 at 7:35 am
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              #10146

              No this is just for her. So I will just sit at home a wait for her all night until she get home.
              The reunion is far away from where we live now, so she needs to sleep someplace and I dont think she want to sleep at her parents house after a long night out :)

            • Anonymous
                June 27, 2013 at 12:50 am
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                #10134

                Hope everything goes/went well :)

              • WannaBeCuck
                  July 4, 2013 at 1:12 pm
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                  #10125

                  I would be honored to have a sexually active and out going women like that. I think jealousy is a male weakness and the inability to realize women need a verity of males for her sexuality. Men only think they need more than one woman but it is proven that women must have several men to fulfill her higher sexual desires. I would love taking a woman out on the town with her eye on every man in the place. I would go to any man that she wishes and explain I am her cuckold and she is interested in him. I would drive them around and or back to our house for her to enjoy sex and bring them back afterwards with hopes of another partner for her. I could never get tired of that because I know my efforts will be rewarded with a woman that will love me for all I do for her happiness. I could never be so lucky as I am not even lucky enough to have any kind of dominate woman. I just don’t get out enough. I hope for every willing woman she has a good cuckold and several lovers to live the lifestyle every woman deserves. Every lover and every cuckold must live their roles with pride and the willingness to put and keep the woman’s happiness their top priority. I hope in my lifetime this lifestyle becomes the new normal lifestyle and everyone be able to live it openly. What a wonderful world it will be. Thank you, Glenn

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