My wife and I started off this lifestyle around 2 years ago, when we first met with a guy who is our own race (asian chinese in Hong Kong) and started as ‘I watch, I presence, they do it’ kind of approach. It went well and I maintained as her no. 1 in life while he was her no. 1 sexually.
Until around 3 months ago around christmas time, she asked for meeting someone new because she said she ‘feels bad & unfair about doing it with another asian guy but not me’. I was kind of shocked because I never knew she thought so. I asked what she wanted, she said she wants to find a white sex partner instead.
We have discussed that over the last couple of months and I am not comfortable with the idea, because I am very worried about her falling deeper and deeper and i will become a no. 2 in her life, even if the current guy told me I should try either finding a white guy for her, or move to a 3some approach, because (he said) ‘she may end up doing it behind your bad which will be even worse.’.
I don’t know what to do or think. I am very confused.
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