Swinger curious needs help/advise

Hello, we are a latin couple living in Long Island,NY. Me, the husband have been trying to get her into the swinger lifestyle, we have had bed talks, mention the topic during sex, watch some related porn, but she is not 100% sure yet. So am seeking for a swinger or cuckold couole for your advise. Any sugestions or plans to get her into the lifestyle will be very appreciated.
Perhaps an local couple that want to help, we could meet first to plan some way to get her into the thing, we could pretend we are friends, ex coworkers or some. Help me please