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After a night on the town and a lot of drinks, my wife and I ended up in an adult entertainment establishment. I’d hate to describe the place as a multiplex, but they do have three full-blown (no pun intended) theaters showing XXX movies. Once my eyes adjusted to the darkness and I could make out the other visitors and realized that we were not only the only couple, but that my wife was also the only woman in the theater. She seemed to notice as well and she didn’t seem to be concerned or even the least bit uncomfortable. I noticed that several guys were openly masturbating to the movie, some were given each other hand or blow-jobs, but most were just watching the movie. After a little more time passed, I noticed that a lot of eyes had left the screen and were now focused on my wife. Once again, she noticed, but didn’t seem to mind. She and I finally started making out and fooling around. I was rubbing her breasts through her sweater and we were rubbing each other’s crotch through our pants. I eventually dropped my pants to below just below my buttocks so that she had better access to my hardon. After several more minutes of her arousing my cock with her hand, and getting my precum freely flowing, she lowered her head to my lap and started blowing me with her hot mouth. I don’t know if she noticed the small group of spectators that had formed around us, but once I did, several of them dropped their pants and started slowly beating their cocks. I motioned for one to move closer, got my wife to take notice of his large dick and she then went back to rubbing my cock with her hand, pulled back his foreskin and after a minute or so, she actually took the head of his cock in her mouth. I nearly came on her hand, but somehow managed to pull my pants back up, so that I could pay attention to what was going on around us. Her action caught me totally off guard and although I was a little shocked, my heart was racing and I was telling my self to enjoy what was happening and to be glad that my fantasy was finally coming true. Then, for no apparent reason, she stopped what she was doing and stormed out of the theater. We had taken the train from our small town to the city, and once we left the theater, it was all I could to keep up with her as she headed for the train station. She wouldn’t say a word to me on the train, and once we got home she cried and told me the she was ashamed of herself for being such a slut. I was finally able to calm her nerves, but since that evening, she refuses to talk about what happened.
I really want her to open her legs and lips for other men, but I don’t know if that dream will ever become a reality.
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stonemtncouple
You need to take really small steps with her. If you can have lots of passionate bedroom sex talk, let her fantasize while stroking your cock in your bed. When she see’s how much it turns you on, fantasizing about her with another man, and how much closer you two become then maybe you can move on to the, single woman at the bar game. Try that when she’s warmed up to the idea. You know, she pretends to be alone at a bar and gets to flirt with other men while you watch.
For someone like her this would be a big step in the right direction. -
Voyeurcuck
Honestly, she was probably just drawn away by the situation and later got second thoughts. Or she may have felt your surprise and reacted on that. Or her “nice girl” got the last word in her mind and she beaten up the slut she was for a minute?
The trip you are on is not a straight one from A to B. It will take several detours, back and forth and eventually end up in a different place than first expected.
My own journey from secret fantasies to now being with 2 couples and 3 threesomes was not a straight journey either. But I learned how important it is to support your wife (and your wife supports you), especially when a new step is taken or to be taken.
Have patience, and make sure you show no anger or blame on her for what happened. In the end, I think she was reacting to the opportunity and your common fantasies and then got second thoughts – probably because you and her haven’t talked through what could happen in the place you want and what borders must be respected.
I nearly had the same setback a year back, my wife has been alone in town with another woman, they ended up drunk and flirting and she went to the bathroom with a guy. She told me when she came home and we had wonderful sex. She also gave clues about giving the guy a blow job, but I reacted hard on it. A couple of days later I found out she had given the guy a short blow…. but didn’t want to tell me since I reacted negatively. We had a lot of talks, and ended up setting clear lines what she could do on her own and what I needed to approve – and it works well for us now.
Best of luck for both of you. I’m sure you have a wonderful wife that’s as eager to fulfill your fantasies as you are to fulfill hers…. but don’t forget to talk them through before you take next steps
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Say_Oy
You might have blown it when you pulled on your pants. While you were part of it she had support, when you dressed you became a spectator and now she was self conscious and got guilt feelings and fear of your disapproval – you were not turned on any more and put up a barrier.
You need to tell her how turned on you were at the theater. That you you would support her in another adventure… though I would not do random sex due to STDs.
Use a dating site or find someone you like, screen for STDs then let him seduce her in a hotel or at your home. Slowly and with your obvious enjoyment – whack off and let her know you came. Make it clear that she is doing it for you… tell her how turned on you were at the theater and can’t stop fantasizing. Helps her get over he slut feeling – until she learns to enjoy it. -
Voyeurcuck
I think you are right Say_Oy about the pants part. Clearly that changed roles and of course she suddenly felt she was doing something wrong when her husband starts dressing up. Imagine it the other way around, she suddenly stops sucking the guy while the husband stands wanking.. I bet that would have been “game over” for him that night too.
Muccuck, I don’t think it’s a finite closure of the game, things can always be worked out as long as you talk together and see things from both sides. We had our humps too, and every time it came down to misunderstandings due to lack of honest communication. And from your post I got the impression a lot has been “unsaid” between you which is a wrong way to play this game.
Imagine how many misunderstandings happening every day in regular conversation. I once heard only 38% of verbal communication gets understood immediately… can’t even imagine how little unspoken communication and mutual undersanding would be going right through
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stonemtncouple
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