The submissive slut within

Women are naturally submissive. Most people tend to follow more than lead, but it's much more so for women and nothing is thought less of them for it while men, on the other hand, are all expected to be leaders despite the reality that most males are more likely to follow than lead as well.

For women, their nurturing role is formed by an instinctive need to care for and to please those in their immediate social group and is core to some of the major differences between men and women. Though largely submissive, women aren't going to 'submit' to just anyone; there is a social hierarchy to these things. Women will either feel the need to defer to someone else or they won't, but even if they do feel it, social, work and family pressures often overrrule that instinct. In addition to those restrictions, woman also have to worry about their safety. This is why trust is so important for any submissive, but especially for women, to allow themselves to be 'vulnerable'.

Your wife can only afford to give into those feelings because she has YOU to love and support her and most importantly, ensure her safety when she gives in to her desire to defer to an assertive male. This is simply nature taking its course.

Thanks for sharing!

I have found that many of the wives I have been a Bull for love the combination of submission to me and the domination they have over their husband.  I think for many if there was only the submission it would 1) not nearly be as exciting 2) make them experience submission as a negative instead as a positive experience.

Also the wives love the variety of submitting to me in relation to their husbands involvement.  They love that sometime he is  participating, sometimes just in the room, sometimes in another room where he can hear and other times simply waiting at home for her to come home well fucked.

Great thread!

Thanks!

Hepfoo

I do have to agree with what you wrote.

It was exciting to read what you guys have to say.  As a successful male, yet an aspiring cuck, it was erotic to read what an influence the cuck is to the hotwife/bull relationship.  I feel that, but it is nice to see it acknowledged.

I would like to resurrect this thread if I may. It was a great read and I think what others have said reflects our experiences. We’ve been married for 36 years and in a cuckold relationship for the past 10 years. Both of us are quite submissive, though not necessarily passive. Early in our marriage we did swap with other couples but it left us feeling quite deflated. When our children grew up and moved out we talked about swapping again but it didn’t appeal. The sensual and erotic dynamic didn’t excite us. After many months of talking we came to the conclusion that perhaps we were both quite submissive and that introducing a dominant element into our sex lives in the form of an mmf relationship might be interesting to explore. Within a few months of meeting someone the whole dynamic of our sexual relationship changed. Sarah was quite submissive to her lover, more assertive and dominant with me and i submissive to both of them. Two years later her lover moved in with us and stayed for a further five years. It was the most intense and sexually satisfying period of our lives. Sexual intercourse to me was denied, often orgasms through masturbation were also denied for long periods. Sarah would milk my prostate regularly largely for health reasons. My submissive nature was being nurtured and Sarah blossomed as a sexual being and always looked radiant, happy and contented. She willingly submitted sexually to her lover and they both always shared their intimacy with me. Often Sarah would lay back in my arms as she made love and I felt this to be such an intense experience. Always I had to orally clean both of them after their love making which drew me close.

I think through this ramble I’m saying that this thread has hit on the truth for many submissive couples.

Thanks for your personal anecdote, paul; what you and your wife have experienced is the ideal that I hope every cuckold couple can experience even though the reality is that few will find the right guy and/or circumstances to make it happen. But, if couples aren’t aware of the option, the possibility of such a beautiful experience, they won’t try.

Thanks for resurrecting this thread, Paul. I can totally relate to the original posting. My wife responds to aggressive, arrogant men in the same fashion. In fact, that’s how I was initially able to get with her, and make her my girlfriend in college. We became quite serious and exclusive, and after nine months together, we were both heartbroken to be separated during summer break, because I had to leave town for a few months to earn some cash. Upon my return back to college, I was totally unprepared for my girlfriends tearful confession of infidelity with two different guys while we were apart. I was extremely furious and hurt, and broke up with her, but couldn’t stop thinking about her. Eventually I realize that I truly loved her, and got back together with her. A few weeks later I realized I couldn’t stop thinking about her with those guys. She had told me that on both occasions she had been out with friends at a bar, and aggressive, older guys had kept pestering her, even after she told them she had a serious boyfriend. They wouldn’t go away, they told her how sexy she was, kept buying her drinks. Eventually, she became compliant and accepted rides with them. At this point they knew they had her, and in both instances they ended up taking my young girlfriend bareback. (At this point in our relationship I had never taken her bareback since she was not on birth control and I wanted to be responsible by always using condoms) Upon hearing this story, it became suddenly clear to me that of course, this is how she responds sexually. It’s the same pattern of how she reacted to me the first time we met, and matched the stories she told me about sexual trysts she had before we were together. She was quite relieved and turned on to find that this sexual proclivity of hers excited me to no end. Soon all our bedroom talk and fantasies involved her with other men. Eventually I would tell her she had my permission and encouragement to take advantage of any sexual situation that might come up, whether or not I was around. Six months later we were engaged. During our engagement, I had the thrill, and privilege of driving a car while my fiancé was taken in the back seat by my best friend. Once we were married, I enjoyed putting my young wife in situations where she would be in the prime hunting grounds of aggressive, dominant males. I loved to sit surreptitiously in the dark corner of some club or hotel bar, watching my young wife perched sexily on top of a bar stool, waiting for the approach of men on the prowl. In the early days she would admit to being quite nervous and uncomfortable as we would prepare to enter the club separately. Her consolation was the knowledge that she really didn’t have to do anything except sit on a bar stool, have a drink, look sexy, and let nature take its course. She knew that she would enjoy the attention of strange men telling and showing her that she was sexually desirable, and, at the same time she would be pleasing her husband by fulfilling his fantasies.          The original poster described watching his wife in this situation, thinking of the men in the bar like vultures flocking to a free meal. I remember watching my wife walking into a dark bar, taking her place on a bar stool, and thinking about a wildlife photographer who ties a lamb to a tree, then watches secretly from a blind as lions approach to take the bait.    It would be mesmerizing to watch the body language from across the room as my wife would slowly submit to the skillful aggression of some cocky, loudmouth alpha male, on and off the dance floor. The kind of guy that would not only cut you off in traffic, but give you the finger at the same time. How completely thrilling it would be on those occasions when I would watch some stranger walk out of the bar with my young life in tow. Like watching the lion disappear into the forest with the lamb in its jaws, you knew he was about to devour the bait. My wife would be taken out to a car, or up to his hotel room depending on our location. On one memorable evening, I was able to secretly follow my wife and her lover-to-be as they left the hotel bar and made their way to the elevators. As I watched him take my young wife in his arms and fill her mouth with his tongue, I thought for a fleeting moment about walking up to the elevator, and getting in with them, acting like just another patron at the hotel. I didn’t have the balls. I just stood there, my mouth was dry, my face was flushed and burning, my hands shaking, as they stepped into the elevator. I saw the doors close behind them and watched as the little yellow light stopped on the ninth floor….. The lions lair

After our daughter was born, my wife would go out on weekends while I stayed home to babysit, hoping mommy would come home with a naughty story about some aggressive stranger who had the power to release the submissive slut within her.

Great thread.  My ex was very much this kind of woman and I was her happy cuckold for a few years.  Eventually she left me for one of these men who didn’t take ‘no’ for an answer, but we have no regrets.  I still adore her and we stay in touch.  

This is a wonderful thread that should stay active. As the husband of a hotwife who is naturally submissive it would be a thrill to go down this road further. While I have domed her many times, I think it is so much easier for a wife to submit further to man she isn’t married to. A couple of her lovers have wanted to be dom but just didn’t have it in them.