in most cases this works out well. there are of course risks of excessive bonding between bull and wife. however as this is first it will be exciting of you both. many find this lifestyle so rewarding it becomes seemingly normal ( as in fact it is in reality for millions) and wonder why not got into it before.
society still paints it as weird. anti marriage etc but used correctly can actual help keep a marriage together. after all no cheating needed! good luck and do keep us all informed outcome .